Virgo Man In Bed – 9 Things To Know About His Sexual Side

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Last Updated on June 23, 2022

If you are in a relationship or interested in starting one with a man born between Aug 23rd – Sept 22nd, you might be intrigued to know how to excite a Virgo man in bed and make him hot for you.

Sexual attraction with a male Virgo is naturally an important driver in any relationship.

Understanding how to create a unique bond between the sheets is the foundation of a contented, long-term partnership.

In this article, I will give you insights into how you can raise a Virgo man’s passion for you.

By discovering more about his sexual fantasies you will be able to make him focus on you, and only you.

You will also get to learn about male Virgo traits so that you will be able to indulge him in pleasurable sex.

However, before we take a dive into key issues of ways to heighten his desire, I would like to draw your attention to his sexual traits.

A Virgo guy is usually known to be very shy and cautious, particularly if he has not formed a romantic attachment with a woman.

Therefore, if you are still in the initial stages of dating, he is likely to be sexually distant.

He may not be open to having sex until he is certain that you are the right woman for him.

Of course, it goes without saying the sexual act is a requirement for us all, but the emotional connection is what holds a couple together.

Understanding the kind of woman he desires and, working on becoming that woman, will help you create an emotional and intimate bond, that will develop into a lasting relationship.

Apart from being physically appealing, you need to make him feel sexually attracted to you by also seducing his mind.

A Virgo man is an active thinker and aroused in bed by his partner whispering in his ear.

This technique of arousal can sometimes be difficult for women as their thinking patterns are different from men.

However, learning how and when to talk during sex will add a new dimension to sexual satisfaction.

Leading sexual therapist Felicity Keith has developed a program called The Language of Desire.

This technique has helped women worldwide to overcome any embarrassment and, also create enduring passion in the bedroom.

This product has enabled many women across the globe to reignite the spark in their relationships. It has taught them how to fulfill their men’s erotic desires through the right words and phrases.

I would recommend that you find time to check out The Language of Desire here, as it may hold the key that reassures your lover that he is truly the only man of your dreams.

Judge for yourself if it is the secret weapon that will help improve your relationship with your Virgo crush.

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Virgo Man In Bed – His Sexual Traits

A Virgo man is known to have the tendencies of a perfectionist.

Sensual, passionate, thoughtful, and attentive with a kinky side open to experiment.

He naturally enjoys having a good time between the sheets and wants to make sure it is the same for his partner.

However, he is not the type of guy to obsess over sex.

He can be sexually distant and aloof, and even cold if he is not sure how he feels about a woman.

There needs to be a genuine, depth, and meaningful connection when you hit the sheets with your Virgo crush.

He needs to know that the feeling is mutual and that you are loyal and trustworthy.

Otherwise, he does not mind abstaining from sex until he is certain you are his perfect match.

For that reason, he is not the type of guy to have a one-night stand or be friends with benefits kind of sex.

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Virgo Man and Sexual Intimacy

Once an emotional bond is formed, nothing will stop your Virgo guy from creating mind-blowing sex with you.

When in the sack with him, you will notice that he is a perfectionist, attentive, thoughtful, and selfless.

He will prefer to take the dominant role while in the sack, but he will not mind being in the submissive role occasionally too.

He will appreciate it if you sometimes take the lead and fulfill his needs and fantasies.

Being a perfectionist, he will want to give you pleasure in every possible way.

He will be keen to understand and satisfy all your sexual needs, fantasies, and desires before his own.

As things progress you may see his interest turn to role-play, flirting, foreplay, and everything else that will make the sexual encounter fulfilling for both of you.

About Virgo Man – His Erogenous Zones

Paying attention to the sensual areas of your Virgo partner can help you awaken his passion while in between the sheets.

It is easy to think that the only sensitive parts of the Virgo man are the obvious ones.

However, you can give him great pleasure by stimulating his mind, and also his stomach area.

Sensually exploring his stomach with gentle strokes of your fingertips will send delightful sensations through his body and light his fire.

If you combine this with whispered sensual words in his ear (see the dirty talk, below), then you will turn him on and make him hyper-aroused for you.

How To Please a Virgo Man Sexually

Now that you understand Virgo man’s sexual traits and personality in bed, you are now able to intensify his sexual drive by doing things that will make him feel desired.

Below are some tips on how to keep things interesting in the sack.

Be Sexually Aggressive With Him

A Virgo man is attentive to the sexual needs of his woman, but sometimes he can be indifferent and cold.

This is normal, particularly when he feels there is little romantic connection.

If your sex life is dull, you can spice it up by awakening the beast in him.

Dropping hints that you are ready to play will make him feel desired and, let him know that the feeling is mutual.

Be sure to take things slowly. Make sure he does not have any worries on his mind and, he looks as though he is relaxed.

Forcing him to do things he does not want is a sure-fire turnoff.

Compliment His Sexual Prowess

Every Virgo guy wants to give his woman intense pleasure in the sack.

If the sex is mind-blowing and you love how he pays attention to your every desire, let him know.

Your reassurance and affirmation can boost his ego and, in turn, heighten his sexual energy and desire to please you even more. Remember to be genuine though.

Do not tell him sex is great just to make him happy. He will be able to detect deception.

You can find out more about how to excite a Virgo man in the bed by listening to this short video here.

Experiment With New Things

A Virgo man in bed is curious. Exploring new sex positions and sex toys such as fluffy handcuffs and sex costumes can intensify his sex drive.

Trying wild and kinky techniques like handcuffing him to a chair during oral sex can keep things interesting.

Do not hesitate to teach him new sex positions.

He will be more than eager to try them out with you and make you happy. Be open to learning new things from him too.

Virgo Man Loves Oral Sex

If there’s something that Virgo man really loves in bed then it’s oral sex. Fortunately, he takes just as much pleasure in giving it as he does in receiving it.

He wants to make sure that you’re deeply satisfied, and the studious and analytical Virgo will even go as far as spending time learning exactly what you like and what is giving you the most pleasure. But in return, he also wants you to do the same for him.

He will take great delight in learning about your intimate body and exploring your erogenous zones. He will make it his mission to discover exactly what kind of touch you enjoy the most in bed.

In turn, when you go down on him, your technique and the way in which you pleasure him will make a big huge to how fulfilling he finds the overall intimacy with you.

If he sees that you’re also enjoying giving him oral pleasure then you’re off to a good start.

Unfortunately, when it comes to oral sex, a lot of women think they are doing it right, but the majority of men attest in men’s magazines that often the blow jobs they receive are just mediocre at best.

Of course, some women with a lot of experience know how to do it well.

However, if you’re reading this and you have that sinking feeling in your stomach and are wondering if you’re doing it right for your Virgo man, then I recommend you listen to this advice on oral sex from a guy’s perspective.

Talk Dirty To Him

One prominent erogenous zone of your Virgo guy is his mind.

You can set the mood by whispering your naughty sex fantasies into his ear.

If you do not know how to use dirty talk to seduce your man and make him obsess over you, do not worry.

The Language of Desire by Felicity Keith can help you master the art.

The program will teach you how to penetrate your man’s mind by using the right words, phrases, and even tone of voice.

Express Yourself Freely

Virgo man in bed wants you to be honest rather than play mind games.

He knows that unfulfilling sex can dampen a relationship, and he would not like to guess how you are feeling.

When in the sack, be sure to tell him about your sexual desires and fantasies so that he can fulfill them.

Telling him what you want him to do to you can heighten his sex drive and desire for you.

Be gentle with your words though.

A Virgo man can be highly sensitive, and criticism will dampen his mood. The YouTube video below gives you some more pointers to the male Virgo.

Read Next: More ways to Seduce a Virgo Man

Final Thoughts

I hope you now feel you have a deeper understanding of how to sexually please your Virgo man.

If you notice that your Virgo man is acting distant and cold, you can set the mood by stimulating his mind with dirty talk.

Language of Desire by Felicity Keith has great insights into the kind of words and phrases you can use to heighten his sex drive.

Other than talking dirty to him, be sure to express your naughty sexual desires. Your guy is certainly eager to fulfill them.

Do not forget to sometimes take the lead. He wants you to make his sexual fantasies come true.

To keep things interesting, be open to trying new sex positions but always focus on the emotional connection with your Virgo man in bed.

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Important Notice

 This is something all women should know

If you are starting to feel your guy is losing interest in you

Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship.

The next few sentences could hold the key to your future relationship happiness.

There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

Yet 90% of women don't even know it even exists.

It is the reason why relationships never get started or why couples just drift apart.

If you want to learn the secret to becoming the center of his world and being the only woman he truly desires,  this video explains the simple steps that can turn your dreams into reality.


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