Virgo Man In Bed – How to Become the Woman of His Dreams

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Last Updated on June 23, 2023

If you’re looking for ways to become the dream woman of a Virgo man in bed, there are some great tips and tricks you can use.

Virgo men are known to be analytical, detail-oriented, and highly focused on their partner’s pleasure – making them ideal partners for adventurous women who want to explore new boundaries.

By taking the time to understand what turns him on and providing him with a safe space to explore his desires, you can create an unforgettable experience that will keep him coming back for more.


1. Adopt a Confident Attitude: A confident attitude is essential when it comes to pleasing a Virgo man in bed.

He’s looking for someone who is comfortable with themselves and unafraid of exploring new sexual experiences.

Showing your confidence will give him the assurance that you are open-minded and willing to try anything he may suggest.

2. Pay Attention to Detail: Virgo men appreciate the attention to detail – both physical and mental – so make sure that your body language reflects how much pleasure you’re feeling when he touches you, speaks to you, or performs any other act of intimacy.

Additionally, be aware of any specific likes or dislikes he has so that you can adjust accordingly if need be.

3. Take Initiative: Taking the lead in the bedroom is always appreciated by a Virgo man; however don’t forget that he likes his space too!

Be aware of his cues during foreplay – if he’s being more passive than usual, it could mean that he wants more time before getting things going again or taking things further.

Don’t get discouraged; simply take the lead until he’s ready to go again!

4. Tell Him How You Feel: Verbalizing your feelings and desires during sex is something all men appreciate – but it’s especially important with a Virgo man because they enjoy hearing about what turns their partner on as much as they enjoy experiencing it themselves!

By telling him what pleases you and how it feels when he does certain moves or touches certain areas, not only will you enhance the experience but also show him how much pleasure his actions bring you.

5. Spontaneity & Variety: Keep things interesting by mixing up your routine every now and then; this type of spontaneity will keep things fresh for both parties involved!

Try different positions or toys, role-playing scenarios, or even take turns leading each session – all these activities help build trust between partners while simultaneously ensuring maximum pleasure for everyone involved!

Don’t wait – take advantage of this video which shows the most effective way to spice up your love life!

How to Arise the Passions of a Virgo Man in Bed

If you are in a relationship or interested in starting one with a man born between Aug 23rd – Sept 22nd, you might be intrigued to know how to excite a Virgo man in bed and make him hot for you.

Sexual attraction for Virgo men is naturally an important driver in any relationship.

Understanding how to create a unique bond between the sheets is the foundation of a contented, long-term partnership.

Discover More About His Sexual Fantasies

By discovering more about his sexual fantasies you will be able to make him focus on you, and only you.

However, before we take a dive into key issues of ways to heighten his desire, I would like to draw your attention to his sexual traits.

A Virgo man is usually known to be very shy and cautious, particularly if he has not formed a romantic attachment with a woman.

Therefore, if you are still in the initial stages of dating, he is likely to be sexually distant.

He may not be open to having sex until he is certain that you are the right woman for him.

Of course, it goes without saying that the sexual act is a requirement for us all, but the emotional connection is what holds a couple together.

Apart from being physically appealing, you need to make him feel sexually attracted to you by also seducing his mind.

A Virgo man is an active thinker and is aroused in bed by his partner whispering in his ear.

This technique of arousal can sometimes be difficult for women as their thinking patterns are different from men.

However, learning how and when to talk during sex will add a new dimension to sexual satisfaction.

Leading sexual therapist Felicity Keith has developed a program called The Language of Desire.

This technique has helped women worldwide to overcome any embarrassment and, also create enduring passion in the bedroom.

This product has enabled many women across the globe to reignite the spark in their relationships.

It has taught them how to fulfill their men’s erotic desires through the right words and phrases.

I would recommend that you find time to check out The Language of Desire here, as it may hold the key that reassures your lover that he is truly the only man of your dreams.

Judge for yourself if it is the secret weapon that will help improve your relationship with your Virgo man.

Favorite Position: Spooning position

Favorite Foreplay Move: Help him relax, gentle massage, ear kissing, and whispering naughty things in his ear

Best Tactic To Turn Him On: The number one sexual tactic to make Virgo man crazy for you is dirty talk (step-by-step guide here). After all, the brain is the number one erogenous zone in the whole body.

Virgo Man In Bed – His Sexual Traits

A Virgo man is known to have the tendencies of a perfectionist.

Sensual, passionate, thoughtful, and attentive with a kinky side open to experiment.

He naturally enjoys having a good time between the sheets and wants to make sure it is the same for his partner.

However, he is not the type of guy to obsess over sex.

He can be sexually distant and aloof, and even cold if he is not sure how he feels about a woman.

There needs to be a genuine, depth, and meaningful connection when you hit the sheets with your Virgo man.

He needs to know that the feeling is mutual and that you are loyal and trustworthy.

Otherwise, he does not mind abstaining from sex until he is certain you are his perfect match.

For that reason, he is not the type of guy to have a one-night stand or be friends-with-benefits kind of sex.

Related article: Virgo moon and sex

Virgo Man and Sexual Intimacy

Once an emotional bond is formed, nothing will stop your Virgo man from creating mind-blowing sex with you.

When in the sack with him, you will notice that he is a perfectionist, attentive, thoughtful, and selfless.

He will prefer to take the dominant role while in the sack, but he will not mind being in the submissive role occasionally too.

He will appreciate it if you sometimes take the lead and fulfill his needs and fantasies.

Being a perfectionist, he will want to give you pleasure in every possible way.

He will be keen to understand and satisfy all your sexual needs, fantasies, and desires before his own.

As things progress you may see his interest turn to role-play, flirting, foreplay, and everything else that will make the sexual encounter fulfilling for both of you.

Virgo Man’s Favorite Sexual Position

For the Virgo man, the spooning position is usually his favorite.

This position allows for closeness, intimacy, and satisfying sexual stimulation without the risk of intense eye contact.

The more your can help your Virgo man relax the better. Before he spoons, suggest he puts a pillow behind his back to help prop him forward.

He’ll find this extra support more relaxing during lovemaking.

About Virgo Man – His Erogenous Zones

Paying attention to the sensual areas of your Virgo man can help you awaken his passion while in bed with your lover.

It is easy to think that the only sensitive parts of the Virgo man are the obvious ones.

However, you can give him great pleasure by stimulating his mind, and also his stomach area.

Sensually exploring his stomach with gentle strokes of your fingertips will send delightful sensations through his body and light his fire.

If you combine this with whispered sensual words in his ear (see the dirty talk, below), then you will turn him on and make him hyper-aroused for you.

A man in bed with his blond girlfriend

How To Please a Virgo Man Sexually

Now that you understand a Virgo man’s sexual traits and personality in bed, you are now able to intensify his sexual drive by doing things that will make him feel desired.

Below are some tips on how to keep things interesting in the sack.

Be Sexually Aggressive With Him

A Virgo man is attentive to the sexual needs of his partner, but sometimes he can be indifferent and cold.

This is normal, particularly when he feels there is little romantic connection.

If your sex life is dull, you can spice it up by awakening the beast in him.

Dropping hints that you are ready to play will make him feel desired and, let him know that the feeling is mutual.

Be sure to take things slowly with a Virgo. Make sure he does not have any worries on his mind and that he is feeling relaxed.

Forcing him to do things he does not want is a surefire turnoff.

Compliment His Sexual Prowess

Every Virgo man wants to give his partner intense pleasure in bed.

If the sex is mind-blowing and you love how he pays attention to your every desire, let him know.

Your reassurance and affirmation can boost his ego and, in turn, heighten his sexual energy and desire to please you even more. Remember to be genuine though.

Do not tell him sex is great just to make him happy. He will be able to detect deception.

You can find out more about how to excite a Virgo man in bed by listening to this short video here.

Experiment With New Things

A Virgo man in bed is curious. Exploring new sex positions and sex toys such as fluffy handcuffs and sext role-play costumes can intensify his sexual desires.

Trying wild and kinky techniques like handcuffing him to a chair during oral sex can keep things interesting.

Do not hesitate to teach him new sex positions.

He will be more than eager to try them out with you and make you happy. Be open to learning new things from him too.

Virgo Man Loves Oral Sex

If there’s something that a Virgo man really loves in bed then it’s oral sex.

Fortunately, he takes just as much pleasure in giving it as he does in receiving it.

He wants to make sure that you’re deeply satisfied and will want to spend time learning exactly what you like and what is giving you the most pleasure.

But in return, he also wants you to do the same for him.

He will take great delight in learning about your intimate body and exploring your erogenous zones.

He will make it his mission to discover exactly what kind of touch you enjoy the most in bed.

In turn, when you go down on him, your technique and the way in which you pleasure him will make a big huge to how fulfilling he finds the overall intimacy with you.

If he sees that you’re also enjoying giving him oral pleasure then you’re off to a good start.

Unfortunately, when it comes to oral sex, a lot of women think they are doing it right.

However, the majority of men attest in men’s magazines that often the blow jobs they receive are just mediocre at best.

Of course, some women with a lot of experience know how to do it well.

If you have that sinking feeling in your stomach that you are not doing it right for your Virgo man, then I recommend you listen to this advice on oral sex from a guy’s perspective.

Talk Dirty To Virgo Man

One prominent erogenous zone of your Virgo man is his mind.

You can set the mood by whispering your naughty sex fantasies into his ear.

If you do not know how to use dirty talk to seduce your man and make him obsess over you, do not worry.

The Language of Desire by Felicity Keith can help you master the art.

The program will teach you how to penetrate your man’s mind by using the right words, phrases, and even tone of voice.

Express Yourself Freely

Virgo man in bed wants you to be honest rather than play mind games.

He knows that unfulfilling sex can dampen a relationship, and he would not like to guess how you are feeling.

Be sure to tell him about your hot, sexual fantasies. Not only will this be a big turn-on for him, but he’ll also likely try to fulfill some of your fantasies for you too.

Telling him what you want him to do to you can heighten his sexual desire for you.

Be gentle with your words though.

A Virgo man can be highly sensitive, and criticism will dampen his mood. The YouTube video below gives you some more pointers for sex with a Virgo man.

Read Next: More Ways to Seduce a Virgo Man

Final Thoughts

I hope you now feel you have a deeper understanding of how to sexually please your Virgo man.

If you notice that your Virgo man is acting distant and cold, you can set the mood by stimulating his mind with dirty talk.

Language of Desire by Felicity Keith has great insights into the kind of words and phrases you can use to heighten his sex drive.

Other than talking dirty to him, be sure to express your naughty sexual desires. Your guy is certainly eager to fulfill them.

Do not forget to sometimes take the lead. He wants you to make his sexual fantasies come true.

To keep things interesting, be open to trying new sex positions but always focus on the emotional connection with your Virgo man in bed.

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Important Notice

 This is something all women should know

If you are starting to feel your guy is losing interest in you

Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship.

The next few sentences could hold the key to your future relationship happiness.

There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

Yet 90% of women don't even know it even exists.

It is the reason why relationships never get started or why couples just drift apart.

If you want to learn the secret to becoming the center of his world and being the only woman he truly desires,  this video explains the simple steps that can turn your dreams into reality.


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