The Gemini man is like a box of chocolates, you never know which one you will get. Yes, there are two of him. Gemini represents the duality of nature, and the sign’s nickname is “the twins”.
He is smart, funny, and easy-going, though he can be dark, sarcastic, and impulsive. He embodies it all and dating a Gemini man will always keep you on your toes.
Best Match for Dating a Gemini Man
The Gemini’s air sign counterparts are his best matches. This is because they tend to be light-hearted, intellectually inclined, communicative, and outgoing.
He does best paired with Libra, Aquarius, and other Geminis.
The extroverted and adventurous fire signs of Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius are also great matches for the Gemini and can add to a perfect balance.
These signs tend to have more motivation and energy. They can get the Gemini moving on some of his ideas and fantasies that flow around his brain but that he is putting off for one reason or another.
As a general rule, more sensitive signs who seek out security and stability from relationships may not do too well with the fluid, flighty, and interchangeable Gemini guy who is always on the move.
If you have the hots for a Gemini man you need to arouse an emotional desire in his brain so that he feels he is making the decision to court you.
Specific words said at opportune moments will trigger a Devotion Sequence in his subconscious mind that will make him want you and only you.
Sounds way out! I thought so too until I discovered how many women had found true love by listening to the guidance of relationship expert Amy North in her program The Devotion Sequence here.
Gemini Man Dating Habits
The Gemini man likes to have fun, while also being intellectually stimulated. He is generally pretty open and free-spirited. The places where this guy likes to go on dates are endless, just as long as they are not boring.
He will likely take you out someplace where he can get his mind off of things — escaping mentally — just the two of you, the only people that matter in this world.
This could mean a variety of different things ranging from traveling, outdoor adventure, a museum, even a movie.
If you like discussion and depth, then the Gemini man will not disappoint.
If he feels a real connection with a woman he will have no problem talking for hours on end and listening to your points of view, all while being genuinely interested in them.
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Gemini Man Dating Traits
The Gemini man can be a puzzling character. He keeps others guessing, even after they get to know and love him. It is not necessarily because he is sneaky or fake, but because the Gemini sign is known as “the twins”.
He represents the dual side of things- the good and the bad, the light and the shadow. If you ask him, he will probably tell you that it is good to be well-rounded, and we cannot argue with that. Plus, he might be right anyway.
These are parts of all of us that most people do not want to look at or that we flat out deny.
This mystery man will draw in potential lovers, believing they will be able to pin this guy down. And even after they have been together, he will keep surprising them.
After a while with this man, you will begin to understand that these are all aspects of him, and hopefully you will love and appreciate the wholeness that is the Gemini.
This will surely get the more sensitive sign’s feathers in a ruffle. But the Gemini guy pays it no mind.
He is friendly, social, and easy-going- sometimes so much so that he can be forgetful and put things off, or “living in the moment” as he likes to call it. If you are looking for stability, then the Gemini is not your best bet.
This guy certainly has a way with words. Gemini is a communicative sign, and this happens to be his greatest strength. When the Gemini man has eyes for a woman he usually has no problem talking them into going out on a date.
And once out on said date he has no problem selling himself as a hot item either. Coupled with his fun and light-hearted nature, you will find yourself wanting to be around this Gemini man more and more.
Sure, he might not be the most romantic of the lot, but he is extremely sweet. And when his charm does come out from hiding from time to time it will remind you why you are with him.
If he looks serious it is because he is thinking. But really by most accounts, he is pretty easygoing.
Since air signs represent the intellect, and Gemini in particular the exchange of ideas, he can take his philosophies seriously.
For a guy who is so smart, you have to wonder why he acts impulsively at times. I guess it is just in his nature to do so.
Geminis are also known to be a bit flighty, so this is why it is so important to understand The Devotion Sequence which will show you how to keep his attention fixed on you.
Maybe he has gotten bored and needs to get on to the next thing that captures his interest. It helps immensely when his partner can reel him back and ground him.
Or maybe his partner is just like him in this sense. If this is the case, it makes for a wild adventure and generally a good time.
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Sex with a Gemini Man
When it comes to Gemini man and sex he can’t get enough of it. In fact, some are even surprisingly huge freaks behind closed doors. Everything about lovemaking gets him going, from how he performs in bed, to pleasing his partner, and just the idea of sex alone is a turn on for Gemini man.
Gemini’s willingness to explore the taboo allows him to be up for whatever. He is not one to shy away from what is frowned upon by others. The Gemini man might have fetishes or get a thrill from having sex in unusual places, and this sort of thing.
Of course, every man is different. Talking to your Gemini man honestly will help open him up as well as give you a better idea of what he is interested in.
Sometimes it can be difficult for some women in the early stages of dating to discuss sexual topics.
If this is you, a short video called The Language of Desire by Felicity Keith gives some valuable info in keeping your guy happy between the sheets.
Gemini and Long Distance Dating
If you can keep the Gemini guy interested mentally, then you will have no problem with him concerning a long-distance relationship.
A great way to stay in regular communication with him is through text message or WhatsApp. He loves to chat and flirt with you in this way. If you know how to keep the connection strong between the two of you through text then Gemini man will miss you and want to see you sooner.
However, text messages can become boring if not drafted correctly. If you need a little help in drafting phrases that will resonate in your guy’s mind and make him constantly think of you when you are apart.
I suggest you take a look at Text Chemistry here.
He seeks a real connection, and for the Gemini, this means a mental one. Your connection with him can be kept and even strengthened through phone calls, face time, social media, and letters (if you are old school).
Dating a Gemini Man: Final Tips
If you want to keep your Gemini man around for the long haul, spark his mental curiosity. While dating a Gemini man, keep his interest in you alive by introducing him to new and stimulating things.
Take him on adventures, support him in his many ideas, help make some of his fantasies a reality, and your relationship with the Gemini man will be a long and fruitful one.
Isabella was introduced to astrology by her mother at an early age and has had a fascination with it ever since. Having been brought up in India while her father was serving with the army, Isabella quickly understood the connection between the zodiac signs and the universe.
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