Aries is the first sign of the zodiac, a young soul in every sense. Some say he can be immature, combative, selfish, and a bit of a bully.
However, underneath it all, the young ram has a sweet, intelligent, and loyal side, as many dating an Aries man will attest to.
If you can keep his interest long enough to win him over, you will have a powerful, dominant, and protective lover and warrior who will support you until the end.
Best Match for Dating an Aries Man
Is it a romantic partner he is looking for? Or a sparring partner? Well, with the Aries it is a bit of both.
This man needs tons of physical affection and someone who can give him some pushback, aka a worthy opponent.
Some find this fun, but it is also for this reason he may not be suited for the more sensitive signs of the zodiac.
Aries men are matched best with their fire sign counterparts like Leo, Sagittarius, and fellow Aries who share some of the sign’s similarities.
The Aries guy could be compatible with air signs as well. Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius can give this guy a run for his money without taking it all too personally.
Aries Man Dating Habits
When going out with your Aries do not expect to find the two of you enjoying a nice calm dinner with candle lights and a band serenading you- or if you do, do not expect to stay for very long.
The Aries man needs excitement, he is a thrill-seeker at heart. People, places, and things all lose his attention quickly.
Dating him, you can expect to bounce from place to place, hitting multiple locations in one night, or possibly for an entire day.
And if you do end up going to just one spot, it will not be a dull one. An amusement park? Swimming with sharks? Running from bulls?
Who knows where you will end up with the Aries guy, but just hope that it is in his arms at the end of the night.
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Aries Man Dating Traits
Aries is an energetic and confident fire sign. This man is always on the move, and it may seem like he is looking for the next person, place, or thing to butt heads with, but really, he is just having some fun.
Those that know him best, including his partner, know this to be true. Those who have just met the young ram, however, may think he is a bit self-consumed.
He is independent, a man on a mission. When an Aries knows what he wants, there is not a thing in this world that will stop him from getting it, including a date.
Yes, the man will walk right up without having a doubt in his mind and make small talk, which quickly turns into flirting and playful teasing, and might even end in a wrestling match.
The man is an initiator, and he is full of energy and passion. Needless to say, he gets bored and restless very easily.
The Aries male will generally also have a big ego which he needs to feed to maintain how he sees himself in life. He needs to prove himself in everything he does including dating.
To become the object of his desire and to channel his enthusiastic drive into winning you over this short video shows how to make him obsessed with winning your love.
No one is trying to paint the Aries man as being “childish” here, even though he does have a young spirit. He is actually highly intelligent and an excellent conversationalist.
But you might have to hold him down to have one with him. Once you do, you will be pleasantly surprised by how well-rounded and refined the Aries can be.
Just like physical experiences, he needs excitement that stimulates his mind. Humor is essential to the Aries male.
While it seems like he takes life seriously, at the end of the day it is all in light-hearted fun. With this man, everything can be made into a joke.
Some people get it, and some do not. For those who do, they know to throw jokes right back at him. His perfect partner is someone who can both dish it and take it.
And he can take it. Well, usually. The Aries man can be surprisingly sensitive. Yeah, you would not have guessed for a fire sign.
But, while sensitive, he also does not hold on to ill feelings or grudges for long. He is an optimist, who lives life to the fullest and has tons to do.
So, naturally, he forgets his feelings were ever hurt, which makes fighting and making up relatively easy with the ram.
If he is still angry, you only need to take him into the bedroom to get some of the aggression out. Sure, all of this sounds captivating, like a character out of a movie.
But the Aries man is not for all.
Water and earth signs will likely not put up with his characteristics for long. They will either get their feelings hurt, feel bulldozed, or not understand why he does any of this stuff at all.
Likewise, since the above signs are toned-down and seem to prefer stability, the Aries man gets bored by them rather easily.
He will probably pick a fight and if they do not push back, he will get bored and go find someone else to spar with. Or if they take the bait and getting all wound up, he will get a chuckle but not find it challenging enough for him either.
This man’s ruling planet is Mars, which represents war, after all. Understanding why you need to make him fight for your love and attention is explained here in His Secret Obsession.
Sex with an Aries Man
The Aries male is full of vitality and extremely physical. Being a fire sign, he tends to express himself physically.
Since he is unable to muscle his way through every situation in life (as there are consequences for that), he finds that he can fully be himself in the bedroom, a place where he can shine.
It could be because Aries has a high sex drive, or he likes the exercise that sex offers him, that the Aries guy spends a lot of time in the bedroom- sometimes all day.
With him, you can expect tons of wrestling, tossing, and general rough stuff as this kind of play is a turn on for Aries man. But beneath this macho exterior is a pussy cat who can be loving and tender when controlled.
The Aries guy’s fiery side can be tempered in the bedroom by his partner whispering in his ear and setting the pace. He wants above all to prove to himself he is a good lover.
Yes, he may on the surface appear dominant and even aggressive but a woman can use The Language of Desire to achieve the ultimate sexual experience and intimate connection with him.
Dating an Aries Man Long Distance
Aries is flighty in general, but he is also the conqueror type who is constantly bouncing from one thing to be the winner at the next.
If you are away from him too long, the young ram could become bored and go out seeking his next challenge in the form of another partner.
However – and this is a big one – if he has won you over already, and you have done the same by showing him you are a worthy match, he will be loyal to you forever.
The secret lies in making sure you are constantly in his thoughts, and this can be done using fun texts for Aries man.
Not inundating him constantly with loads of messages but sending messages with true meaning that resonate with his subconscious mind.
You can find out more about this technique that uses carefully crafted sentences to keep his attention focused on you and only you by listening to this video on Text Chemistry here.
If your relationship is already solid, then you and the Aries guy will do just fine long distance. If he has your heart and you know it, then there is nothing at all to worry about.
The childlike warrior spirit of the Aries man is admirable, but not for all. To win him over in the bedroom The Language of Desire will send his passion for you to new heights.
Dating an Aries man is like stepping into the arena in full gladiator uniform and then running 100 miles afterward, all the while getting tons of love from this sweet fire sign.
If you have thick skin and a lot of energy, a fun, and playful nature, the Aries ram may be the perfect sign for you.
Grace lives in New South Wales Australia, having an English emigrant Father and a native Aboriginal Mother. Grace has spent many years traveling and living in various parts of the world studying different cultures. Grace has been fascinated by how many cultures embrace astrology.
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