Creating an emotional connection with someone after the initial attraction stage can be difficult due to not understanding the other person’s characteristics.
A man born under the astrology sign of Gemini is sometimes slow to show his true feelings for fear of rejection.
Asking yourself ‘How do I turn on a Gemini man, and make him want me?’ is all about getting him to feel completely comfortable when you are together.
For that, you need to know his secret desires and what he is looking for from a woman. His Secret Obsession here.
If you have just started dating or have been together for a while and feel the magic is waning, there are things you can do to turn on a Gemini man. The Language of Desire here.
Let’s start with what you need to know in keeping his attention and then later how you can raise his passion in a sexual relationship.
What a Gemini man craves in a relationship
Every situation will vary regarding the commitment within a relationship. Lots of people both male and female are happy with casual affairs and one night stands. However, if you think you have possibly found Mr. Right who happens to be a Gemini you need to know how to maintain his attention.
A man born between May 21st – June 20th comes under the zodiac sign of Gemini which is represented by the twins. This then gives the first clue to this charismatic character who craves to be united in a strong relationship with someone who he trusts and who understands him.
The Gemini man is usually one who is well balanced and who has a unique canny instinct to be able to stand back and see both sides of a problem or disagreement. His natal birth sign indicates him to be loyal and trustworthy but can also get totally absorbed into things he finds interesting.
I recently discovered a relationship expert who has spent years helping women just like you and me in understanding the hidden desires of a Gemini man. The expert is named James Bauer who has uncovered some amazing facts about what a man secretly wants from a relationship.
If you are looking for a true commitment from your Gemini crush you may find the following video extremely interesting. James explains a unique craving that your guy is desperate for you to discover so that you can be as united as the twins of his zodiac sign. Watch His Secret Obsession video here.
How To Turn On a Gemini Man?
Learning how to turn on a Gemini man comes with allowing him to really get to know you. This man has a clear picture in his mind of what he wants out of life, and that includes the woman he wants to share it with.
A healthy lifestyle produces a healthy body which is the first attraction for a Gemini man looking for a romantic liaison.
Everyone has something different about their bodies but always remember ‘Beauty is in the eye of the beholder’. Men are attracted to different things.
Whether you consider yourself too fat or too thin, it matters not if you give out a healthy glow. Being fit and healthy will give you a hot body that is appreciated by guys. It will show in your skin, your hair, and your sleep patterns which will enhance your confidence. All attractive to the Gemini male.
The magnetic attraction of a woman comes from being confident in who they are. Thinking healthy and knowing you are the best you can be is the start of making your crush intrigued to know more about the mysterious side of you.
Related article: Gemini men in bed – the surprising truth
Be a little revealing
I know it sounds obvious but men are attracted to the female shape and turned on by the sight of discreet flashes of skin especially near your private areas.
With your new confident healthy outlook on life, you will be able to drive him wild by wearing clothes that extenuate your figure.
A lot of women make the mistake of overdoing the makeup and dowsing themselves with perfume. This is something that should be avoided with the level headed Gemini guy who tends to shy away from anything false.
In fact, the Gemini man is one that is always looking for honesty especially when thinking about taking a partner. It is always better to be upfront with this zodiac sign when discussing romantic issues because he is a guy who finds it hard to forgive and forget.
He may well take a long time in sharing his feelings because he wants to be as sure as possible that his advances are not taken for granted.
The Physical turn on
The above is an example of the physical turn-ons that you can use to set his imagination sparking. Flirting with close contact and discreetly touching his hand or accidentally brushing his shoulder should open the door for him to move things forward.
When trying to seduce your crush you need to use all the tools available to you, but not in an obvious way.
A Gemini man is usually intelligent with a very active brain and arousing his passion for romance usually stems from stimulating his imagination.
The next stage of this article moves up to seduction and the benefits of understanding behavioral turn-ons that build on the physical.
Sexual behavior is a natural instinct and is what men are programmed to react to and respond to.
See also: Fun ways to attract a Gemini man
The Psychological turn on
When a woman is thinking about seduction she has to make sure that both she and her partner are completely happy with each other and comfortable within their surroundings. Seduction can only be possible if any awkwardness is eliminated from the partnership.
As I said earlier a Gemini man has a very active brain so he is always switched on by sound. This underlines the importance of how you talk to him and more importantly how you talk to him when you are together between the sheets.
Whispering in his ear during lovemaking is one of the most effective things you can do for a Gemini guy. Guiding him with words of encouragement and also how much pleasure he is giving you is of paramount importance to a man born under this zodiac sign.
Expressing yourself in this way can sometimes be difficult due to embarrassment or simply not knowing the right words and time to say things. If you can combine flirty playfulness with sexual innuendo he will become super hot for you and create an amazing sex experience for you both.
Professional relationship and sex therapist Felicity Keith has used her vast experience of helping women to develop a program called The Language of Desire. Learning the exact words and the tone in which to say them, as Felicity explains here, will blast his passion into orbit for you.
I came across this YouTube video which I thought might help you in understanding more about your Gemini guy. The video is easy to follow with information about his characteristics and how he reacts in romantic situations.
Gemini men can sometimes come across as reserved but don’t let this put you off. This zodiac sign for a male is one of the most sought after due to his reliability and wanting a union with a partner who he can trust.
If you want a Gemini man to treat you like a princess you need to understand the hidden craving that he wants his partner to discover. Relationship expert James Bauer has produced a video in which he explains His Secret Obsession here. Listen to see if this relates to your partner!!
One of the most important things to remember about your Gemini crush is that he wants to feel as one with his partner. He wants to feel true emotion and to get that he needs to have all his senses aroused.
To activate his imagination you need to activate his brain. So, if you want to make sure he has no need to seek pleasure in the arms of another woman listen to a short video in which sex therapist Felicity Keith explains her program called The Language of desire here.