Libra Man is Playing You – 4 Signs That Tell You

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Last Updated on July 25, 2023

The male born under the zodiac sign of Libra is known for being extremely loyal to those he loves. But, what happens when he starts becoming distant?

Is he really in love? Or is he pushing against commitment and just does not want to be tied down?

Make sure you are giving him what he needs in a relationship, as explained by an expert in this video.

This makes it difficult to determine whether he truly cares about you or if he’s just stringing you along.

In order to find out if a Libra man is playing you, look for signs that he’s been lying to you. Here are some red flags to watch out for.

How to Know if a Libra Man Is Playing You

Here are the 4 typical signs that show a Libra man is playing games with you.

If it turns out to be the case that your Libra man has been leading you on, then it’s time to have a conversation with him about his behavior. If he’s not willing to change, then you’re better off without him.

He’s Always Making Excuses and Changing Plans

If a Libra male is always making excuses as to what he can’t do, like meeting up with you or seeing you, then that’s definitely an obvious sign.

This guy isn’t interested in you romantically. In fact, he probably sees you as nothing more than a plaything.

He likes to treat women like objects and toys, and he’ll use you until you eventually fall in with how he wants things to be. If he really wants you, he will respect you for being your own person.

You might think you’re getting something out of the relationship, but you’re actually being used and abused. Don’t let yourself fall victim to this type of person.

Related article: When a Libra Man Ignores You

You Blame Yourself When Things Get Stressful

If you feel like everything is never your fault, then you are either very confident or you’re kidding yourself.

Either way, it’s always better, to be honest with yourself.

When you tell yourself that everything is always your fault—even when things aren’t—you’re making excuses for his behavior.

Even though you know deep down that there’s nothing wrong with your Libra man, you still find ways to blame yourself for whatever happens. This isn’t healthy.

You might think that if you take responsibility for every problem, you won’t ever experience hurtful situations again.

But what you’ll actually do is stop trying to change your partner and start blaming yourself for anything that goes wrong.

And guess what? You’ll start feeling even worse because you’ve stopped doing something positive to fix the situation.

The truth is, no one else is responsible for how you feel. So let go of the guilt and move forward. Don’t try to control your partner; instead, focus on being the best person you can be.

One constructive thing you can do is make sure you are providing him with his hero fulfillment.

What’s that? You may ask. It is the vital ingredient a man needs to be happy with one woman. Listen to a relationship expert explain His Secret Obsession in this video.

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Physical Intimacy is His Priority

If you’ve been dating someone for a while, you know how it goes. One day, you wake up and realize that your guy has been texting you every single day.

And, each text seems like it could be about anything — except sex.

He sends you messages like “Hey babe!” or “I miss you.” Or, maybe he says something along the lines of “You are my best friend,” or “Can we hang out?”

But, none of those things sound quite right. They don’t seem like things that guys do when they’re trying to start a conversation about a potential hookup.

So, why does he keep reaching out to you? Is he bored? Lonely? Horny? Maybe he’s just looking for a little fun.

Whatever the reason, one thing is clear: he’s trying to hit on you for some action. And, if you let him go down that road, you’ll probably end up disappointed.

Why? Because most men aren’t willing to commit to a long-term relationship unless they feel like they have a shot at getting laid.

Related article: Libra Man in Bed

So, if you keep giving him opportunities to flirt, he’s likely to take advantage of the situation.

But, if you decide to cut off contact, you won’t lose much. In fact, you might even gain a few points.

First, you’ll avoid being played. Second, you’ll save yourself from wasting your time. Third, you’ll stop making yourself vulnerable to people who are only looking for a quick fling.

He’s Not Emotionally Involved in the Relationship

A man with this zodiac sign who isn’t emotionally invested in his relationship won’t give his best effort. If he truly loves you, he’ll put forth 110% effort into making sure that your relationship works out well.

But if you find yourself constantly being ignored, neglected, and taken advantage of, you know that he’s not emotionally invested. And because he isn’t emotionally involved, he’s not giving you his full attention.

If you’ve been dating someone like this, chances are that you feel invisible, unimportant, and unworthy.

You probably don’t believe that he really cares about you. So why does he treat you like this? Because he’s not emotionally invested in your relationship.

He’s just looking out for number one. He wants what he wants, and he doesn’t want to deal with anyone getting in his way.

If he’s not interested in you, he won’t make an effort to show it. And if he makes an effort to show it, he’ll do it in ways that hurt you, rather than help you.

Related article: The dark traits of Libra

Final Thoughts

I am sure most of us, from time to time, have been there before. We are dating someone and we want to make things work.

But every now and then our potential partner does something that makes us doubt whether they really love us or just want to play around.

If you think your Libra man is playing you, it is the best policy to take some action and be prepared to walk away.

But first, ensure it is not you that is pushing him away because you are not providing him, the main thing he must have in a committed relationship. This video may hold the key to your happiness.

Be honest. Tell him that you don’t think he deserves you anymore.

You must be sincere and straightforward about it. Don’t give excuses like “You are my best friend” or “We are still young”. This will only confuse him further.

Let go. Once you have told him that you are done, let go. There is no use wasting your energy over someone who doesn’t care enough about you.

After all, it may just be the jolt he needs for him to realize how much he is losing if you walk away.

Important Notice

 This is something all women should know

If you are starting to feel your guy is losing interest in you

Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship.

The next few sentences could hold the key to your future relationship happiness.

There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

Yet 90% of women don't even know it even exists.

It is the reason why relationships never get started or why couples just drift apart.

If you want to learn the secret to becoming the center of his world and being the only woman he truly desires,  this video explains the simple steps that can turn your dreams into reality.


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