Aquarius Man is Playing You 4 Signs to Look Out For

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Last Updated on July 25, 2023

If you’re worried that you’re Aquarius man is playing you, here are a few telltale signs you should be on the lookout for.

If he’s toying with your emotions and is only interested in physical dating, or excludes you from his circle of friends. These are red flags that need to be addressed.

If you spot any of these obvious signs, it’s time to decide if he is worth your time in a relationship.

However, before you do make sure you are not unconsciously pushing him away by not understanding his vital need in a relationship. This video explains.

Read on for some tips that will help you decide.

How to Know an Aquarius Man Is Playing You

Aquarius men can be extremely direct when it comes to using women. He’s also notorious for being unreliable, especially when it comes to plans.

If you’re not feeling appreciated, this sign will most likely walk away. He’s also prone to be caught up in the moment, so you may want to keep an eye on this trait.

If your Aquarius man is trying to make you feel good about yourself, he will most likely try to do it without you noticing.

For example, he may tell you that you look beautiful, or that you need to use more makeup. He might also suggest that you cut down on carbs or exercise more if you’d like to look better.

He Toys with Your Emotions

These tactics are meant to build up his ego.

A Man born under the zodiac sign of Aquarius can play with your emotions and get upset if you are not emotionally supportive of him.

He may be flirtatious with other women or not answer your calls and texts. If he does, you should try to understand what he is going through.

A serious relationship takes time to build and will be much more rewarding when both parties understand the other’s needs.

A vital thing that is not understood by most women is his need to be seen in your eyes as a hero. Not a knight in shining armor type of hero but a provider and protector of his partner.

Sounds complicated? But it’s not, this video by a relationship expert explains the easy way to a man’s heart.

The Aquarius Man will try to figure out what you feel and why you are feeling that way. He may need some time to think about it.

He may not always follow the rules of emotion, but he will value your sanctuary.

However, care should be taken. If you approach him and talk about your feelings, and he is not ready, he may feel like you are invading his space.

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He Only Wants Physical Dating

If you’re interested in pursuing a relationship with an Aquarius man, you must know his needs and what he’s looking for in a relationship. He is not looking for a clingy, sexy woman.

Instead, he is looking for a partner who is smart and intellectual. He will prefer a type of woman who is always learning and pushing the boundaries of her relationship.

He will always put in the time to make the relationship work. He wants to know that you’re his priority and that he is in it for the long haul.

He’ll also be sure to keep communication lines open and spend quality time with you.

Compromise is Not an Option

When it comes to intimacy, the Aquarius man is very owner-like and will not accept anything less than a commitment which is one of his bad traits.

This is one reason why you should never flirt with someone who he may be intimidated by. This man will perceive your actions as hurting his pride, and he will not put up with them.

You should make sure your Aquarian man is the type that is easy to please. He does not like a girl who is too demanding or clingy.

If you want to keep your Aquarius man happy, you need to take care of yourself. If you can do that, your relationship will be more fulfilling.

See also: When an Aquarius man ignores you

He Avoids Meaningful Conversations

Aquarius men are known for being very cerebral people. They are interested in learning about others and enjoy discussing ideas, politics, philosophy, and literature.

However, it seems like Aquarians don’t really know how to talk to women.

In fact, according to the book called, “The Rules,” Aquarius men are often too preoccupied with themselves to even understand any deep sense of what women are saying.

This makes it difficult for Aquarius men to connect emotionally with anyone, including their partners.

If you’ve been dating an Aquarius man for a while now, chances are you’ve noticed some common patterns.

For example, you might find yourself having the same conversation over and over again, or feeling totally ignored during dates.

These behaviors could indicate that your Aquarius boyfriend doesn’t care enough to listen to you.

Related article: The dark traits of Aquarius

Final Thoughts

You might think that if an Aquarius man is playing you he isn’t capable of an emotional connection because he’s always busy thinking about himself.

But the truth is, Aquarius men are actually quite sensitive.

So, if you feel like your Aquarius boyfriend is ignoring your feelings, try talking to him about how you’re feeling.

Make sure you do it in a way where he feels safe opening up to you. Try asking questions such as, “What am I doing wrong?” Or “How can we work together better?”

Before you do, make sure you listen to this short video, recorded by a relationship expert explaining what a man really wants from a long-term partner. 

Important Notice

 This is something all women should know

If you are starting to feel your guy is losing interest in you

Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship.

The next few sentences could hold the key to your future relationship happiness.

There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

Yet 90% of women don't even know it even exists.

It is the reason why relationships never get started or why couples just drift apart.

If you want to learn the secret to becoming the center of his world and being the only woman he truly desires,  this video explains the simple steps that can turn your dreams into reality.


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