Signs an Aries Man is Playing You

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Last Updated on July 25, 2023

It can sometimes be difficult to know if an Aries man is playing you or has other problems that he is dealing with.

He tends to keep his own counsel and has some controlling characteristics that may throw up some doubts in your mind.

If he’s not as affectionate as you think he should be, or he puts his own needs before yours you need to understand why.

Also, If he is being manipulative, spending more time with his friends rather than you, or losing his temper more often, you should be on your guard.

If you notice any of these unfortunate signs, you should take action immediately to try to remedy the situation and possibly avoid a breakup.

First, find out why he is pulling away! Are you providing him with the main thing he must have to be contented in a long-term commitment? This video by a relationship expert explains.

How to Spot the Signs an Aries Man Is Playing You 

You should be on the lookout for bad signs that indicate if your Aries man is playing games with you. Rectifying these problems early on could save a lot of heartaches later.

First of all, if he isn’t as attentive as he used to be. He may call you only when he really wants sex, and this is a common sign that he’s playing you.

Aries men are charming, but they can also be very manipulative and can bring drama to a romantic relationship. They know how to hurt a woman’s feelings in order to get what they want.

This is a common trait of men who were born under the zodiac sign of Aries.

Aries men are very competitive and like to win at everything they get involved with. This is why flirting with your Aries man’s friends could lead to a fight.

You don’t want to make your Aries man feel like a loser, so never try to make him jealous and expect him to hang around.

He is Not as Affectionate 

Women who date an Aries man will describe him in different ways.

Conservative women might describe him as a “rough shock,” while free-spirited women may describe him as “an impish roller coaster.”

In a relationship with an Aries man, you should expect that he will want to keep you on his terms. Women with weak wills should avoid Aries men.

Rather than expressing their feelings verbally, Aries men will show their affection through physical touch and actions.

This may sound strange to you, but Aries men are known for their impulsiveness when it comes to matters of the heart.

They’ll go out of their way to impress you, and they’ll never run out of ideas.

In addition, you should always expect Aries men to stay in contact with you and text you often, even when they’re busy. If this has changed he could be playing you.

Aries men are known to have a savior complex. They’ll drop everything to be with you, even if it means taking the day off from work.

In addition to their savior complex, Aries men are also likely to put their loved ones above themselves. They’ll even leave work halfway, especially if they see you are upset.

If you feel your Aries man is playing you it may be something that you are not providing. Take a look at what a relationship expert says is a must-have in a relationship with an Aries man.

He puts His Needs Before Yours

The Aries man puts his needs first. He doesn’t like to be rushed or told what to do.

His actions are often impulsive and he doesn’t think of the consequences of those actions.

An Aries man doesn’t like to be controlled by a woman. This type of man often settles down later in life, but only when he’s actively trying to control his energy.

An Aries man loves to challenge himself. He likes challenges and physical activities. He also appreciates spontaneity.

He enjoys surprises and wants to be surprised. You can give him some independence by planning a date night together.

Another way to make your Aries man feel more secure is by letting him know that you want to protect him.

Don’t be afraid to ask him to help you with something, but don’t make it feel like you’re using him. Even small favors can go a long way in a relationship between an Aries man and a woman.

If your Aries man puts his needs before yours, he will leave you hanging for days and then show up as if nothing happened.

If you are trying to save him from himself, remember to give him time to care for you.

If he’s constantly putting his needs ahead of yours, he’s not caring about you and will leave when it suits him.

Woman keeping her fingers crossed

He is Being Manipulative

Aries men are known to be manipulative and talk about themselves a lot. They have a tendency to use a partner when it suits them. This is not a good trait for a relationship.

If you think your Aries man is being manipulative, you need to call him out.

An Aries man putting himself first is a major red flag. It means he’s putting himself above you.

You shouldn’t be compromising with a man who is selfish. This is a sign he’s not into you.

Aries men have strong competitive instincts. They’ll use their intuition to find weaknesses in you and pull your heartstrings.

While they’re a charming and charismatic person, they can be manipulative. For instance, he may show a false facade in order to get his own way.

If you suspect your Aries man is being manipulative, pay attention to his actions and personality. These traits are reflected in the way he handles relationships.

Aries men are leaders, but they can use their influence to manipulate others.

They can control others into doing what they’d like them to do, however too much and he will lose his respect for you.

He Keeps His Social Circle Private

An Aries man will never be absent from your social life, but he may not invite you to important parties.

He will also be shy when it comes to verbalizing his feelings for you. If he isn’t able to tell you his feelings, he will show you through body language.

An Aries man’s friends and family will be his closest circle of people. He will introduce you to his friends and family first before he introduces you to his parents.

This means he values your opinions and is willing to listen to other opinions.

Aries men are highly protective of their partners. Although they enjoy casual dating, they want to spend the rest of their lives with someone special. Someone they respect.

This protectiveness may cause them to get into unnecessary arguments with people they perceive as threats to their relationship.

It’s okay to bring up this protectiveness later on in the relationship if you notice it. Just make sure he is doing it for your benefit rather than his own.

Aries men love surprises. They put a lot of effort into learning about you and making sure you are compatible.

Their curious nature means they will ask you thoughtful questions, and they won’t be shy.

If he is serious about you, he will want to know about your dreams, secrets, and everything else about your life. Make sure you know how to provide him with the thing he needs most in a relationship.

He is Quick to Lose His Temper

You should not provoke an Aries man to argue with you. He is likely to get angry and say something that you’ll regret.

Avoid making him angry by being patient and understanding. Aries men don’t like to be pushed around or ignored.

Instead, listen to him and explain to him what you need to know.

Aries men are very quick to lose their temper if they feel they’re being played. This is something you should avoid doing in your relationship.

Aries men also do not like being manipulated and bossed around. If you try to control them or manipulate them, you’ll just make them feel insecure.

When an Aries man becomes angry, he will isolate himself and spend more time with his male friends.

An Aries man is fiercely independent and competitive. He isn’t easily fooled by slowpokes or suggestions.

If you’re trying to win his heart, he’ll lose his temper if you’re not giving him enough room to express himself.

If he’s in love, an Aries man will go out of his way to show it. If he feels you are not interested in him, he’ll be unable to tell you he’s feeling lonely.

Related article: The dark traits of Aries

Final Thoughts

If you’re dating an Aries man, you may be wondering how to tell if he’s playing mind games.

Aries men tend to be short-tempered and have a limited attention span. That means they’ll ask you weird questions about your breakups, turn-ons, dreams, and ideas.

Luckily, there are ways to challenge him without making him feel dominated.

First of all, avoid buying an Aries man anything that makes him feel he is being trapped into any commitment.

Aries men are known for being impulsive and bold, and a physical gift will likely not be welcomed by this firey air sign. Instead, consider giving him an experience that he’ll remember.

Another way to tell if your Aries man is playing you is to keep an eye on his behavior.

You might notice he’s less physically affectionate than usual or that he’s not interested in sex.

This is an indication that he’s not truly interested in you. When this happens, he’ll probably start thinking about other things, including his hobbies and friends.

He may also cancel plans or cancel them at the last minute, which means that he doesn’t care about your needs.

While Aries men tend to be independent, they also value loyalty in a relationship.

Don’t make him jealous by flirting with his friends. You’ll likely push him away rather than declare his love for you.

Important Notice

 This is something all women should know

If you are starting to feel your guy is losing interest in you

Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship.

The next few sentences could hold the key to your future relationship happiness.

There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

Yet 90% of women don't even know it even exists.

It is the reason why relationships never get started or why couples just drift apart.

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