Signs a Pisces Man is Playing You – How to Know for Sure

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Last Updated on July 25, 2023

The Pisces male is one of the most emotional signs in astrology. He is sensitive, loving, caring, and compassionate. But he can also be indecisive about what he wants in life.

If you are feeling insecure in your relationship, you need to be careful, not to jump to conclusions that your Pisces man is playing you. He may be wanting more from you!

However, there are some telltale signs that indicate he might not be the best match for you.

So read on to learn how to spot the warning signs he is pulling away.

Or that his actions are a cry for help, and that he needs you to provide the missing ingredient that he must have in a successful relationship.

How to Know a Pisces Man Is Playing You

He Avoids Intimate Moments

When it comes to romance, Pisceans are very sensitive people. They always want to know what others think about them, especially those close to them.

This makes them vulnerable to rejection and creates hurt feelings.

They tend to avoid intimacy because they don’t like to see themselves being judged. But, once they fall in love, they become very passionate and romantic.

They usually choose someone who is a good listener and cares about them deeply. Once they find such a person, they make every effort to show off their best side.

He seems to Avoid Calling Me

I am sure many of us have been in real relationships where we feel ignored by our partners and suspect them of playing mind games.

We think it might be because they don’t care about us, or maybe they’re too busy to talk to us. But there could be another reason why they ignore us, that is creating mixed signals.

According to Dr. John Gottman, a famous relationship expert, men often ignore women when they want to test whether or not they can get away with doing whatever they want without being punished.

When a man feels like he can take advantage of someone, he’ll try to see how far he can go without getting caught.

This is called “testing.” In most cases, testing doesn’t mean anything negative; it’s just a way of seeing if he can get away with things. And if he gets away with it, he thinks he can get away with everything.

If you’re wondering why your partner ignores you, ask yourself if you’ve ever done something similar.

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He is Reluctant to Discuss the Future

A Pisces man might seem like he is very easygoing, but don’t let yourself be fooled. This guy likes to keep things simple and straightforward. He won’t hesitate to talk to you about anything, but he’ll do it slowly.

You’ll feel like he’s talking to you in circles, but he just wants to make sure you understand what he’s saying.

He’s attracted to you, but he’s afraid of getting hurt.

He thinks that if he gets too close to someone, he’ll lose himself, and he’d rather wait for the perfect moment to start dating again.

A Pisces man will always look out for his best interest, even though he tries to hide it. He needs to know whether you’re ready to commit.

If he seems reluctant to discuss his feelings, he’s probably unsure how much commitment he wants to give to you.

He’s looking for a long-term relationship where both partners are equally committed to each other. 

Understanding the importance of what a Pisces man needs to commit in a relationship is explained in this video by a leading relationship expert.

He knows that if he starts feeling attached to you, he’ll have trouble letting go, and he doesn’t want that. So he’s cautious about making a move.

He Keeps his Private Life Hidden

You’ve been dating someone for months. He seems like such a great guy. But there are some things about him that you just don’t understand. Maybe it’s because he keeps everything bottled up inside.

Or maybe he doesn’t want to tell you something important. Either way, you’re starting to wonder what’s really going on behind closed doors.

Don’t worry though; we’ve got some tips for figuring out whether your boyfriend is hiding something.

1. Ask Him Questions About Himself

If you ask your boyfriend questions about himself, he might open up and talk about his family history, hobbies, interests, career goals, or even his childhood.

If he can answer those questions easily, chances are he isn’t keeping secrets from you.

2. Watch How He Answers Your Questions

When you ask your boyfriend questions, watch how he responds. Does he give short, one-word answers?

Do his eyes dart away while talking? Is he hesitant to say certain words? These are signs that he’s holding something back.

Doesn’t Notice Things About You

If you’ve been dating a Pisces man for some time now, chances are you’ve noticed that he’s always putting himself ahead of everything else.

This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but if he makes you feel like you’re never good enough, there might be something deeper behind it.

Is he trying to avoid commitment? Or does he simply want to keep things casual?

If he’s making you feel unimportant, it could be because he wants to play around without having to worry about getting serious.

In fact, a lot of Pisces men tend to do this throughout most of their committed relationships. But once they start feeling attached to someone, they’ll suddenly become much more attentive and affectionate.

So if you notice that this guy seems to be ignoring you lately, it might mean that he’s just not ready to commit.

Related Article: The dark traits of Pisces

Final Thoughts

A Pisces man is interested in seeing how you respond to stress.

If he thinks you’re about to blow up, he’ll probably try to push your buttons in hopes of provoking you into reacting.

But if you seem cool and collected, he’ll likely take a step back and give you space. This could then give you the opportunity to decide if your Pisces man is playing you or not.

He’s looking for someone who can control their emotions, so don’t overreact or start arguing. Instead, try to remain neutral.

Explain why you’re upset or frustrated, but do it in a way that doesn’t make him feel attacked. Be yourself and avoid getting defensive.

Important Notice

 This is something all women should know

If you are starting to feel your guy is losing interest in you

Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship.

The next few sentences could hold the key to your future relationship happiness.

There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

Yet 90% of women don't even know it even exists.

It is the reason why relationships never get started or why couples just drift apart.

If you want to learn the secret to becoming the center of his world and being the only woman he truly desires,  this video explains the simple steps that can turn your dreams into reality.


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