Gemini Man is Playing You – 5 Signs to Look Out For

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Last Updated on July 25, 2023

Gemini men are notoriously difficult to read. Their personalities are both charming and mysterious, making it hard to know what they’re thinking and whether they’re being sincere.

He might seem like a good guy, but don’t let his charm fool you into believing he’s trustworthy. A Gemini man’s charm often hides a darker side and he might be playing mind games.

But there are ways to figure out if a Gemini man is playing you or if his intentions are true.

How to Know if a Gemini Man Is Playing You

Here are the 5 most common signs a Gemini man is just playing a game with you.

If you discover that your Gemini man has been leading you on, confront him and ask him to change his ways. If he does not agree, then you’re better off without him.

But first, listen to this video that explains an obsession he has and if you are the woman to provide it for him. 

He makes excuses when you plan a date 

If there’s one thing Gemini men don’t want to hear, it’s “When?” They’re fine with saying yes to something, but they hate being told what day to do it.

If you’ve been trying to set up a date with your guy and he keeps putting off giving you an answer, check yourself. This is a warning sign that you might be asking too much.

According to psychologists, like these, Gemini men are often very busy people. And while they may seem like they’re never around, they actually have a lot going on.

When it comes to dating, however, they tend to keep things pretty casual.

So if he’s telling you that he doesn’t have enough free time to see you, chances are he’s either working overtime or spending way too many hours socializing.

That’s why it’s important to understand that men born under the zodiac sign of Gemini aren’t necessarily avoiding you; they’re simply choosing their words carefully.

So if he says he wants to meet up sometime soon, he could mean next week or next month — he just needs to clarify exactly when.

If this is happening then you ought to consider if something is missing in your romantic relationship, making him act this way.

Relationship expert James Bauer has discovered something that 90% of women don’t even realize exists.

It is a fundamental need that a man must have to be happy with one woman. Listen to James as he explains how easily you can get the man of your dreams to commit himself to you.

It can be difficult to read a Gemini Guy

The Gemini man has a short attention span and can be a tricky character. They keep things close to their chest and often change their minds without warning.

If you think you’ve found Mr. Right, don’t be surprised if he changes his mind later and moves on.

This is because Geminis are born under the element of air and ruled by Mercury.

This gives them great communication skills and quick wit, making them good conversationalists and communicators. But while they love talking, they aren’t always reliable.

They can be very indecisive, and some people find this frustrating. Others see this as charming and fun.

Either way, it’s important to remember that Geminis are moody and unpredictable and slow to show their true feelings.

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He is slow to respond to texts and phone calls

He says he loves you and promises to come home soon. But every day passes without seeing him. You know it’s been too long since he left.

You feel hurt and angry. How could he just disappear like that? What did you do wrong?

You start thinking about how much you miss him. You wonder what happened. Did he change his mind? Was there someone else?

The days go by and you don’t hear anything. You begin to think maybe he didn’t love you enough to stick around. Maybe he wasn’t willing to sacrifice everything for you.

If you want to win him back, you’ll have to prove yourself worthy of his affection. You need to find a way of becoming the focus of his desire.d

Something that has worked well for many women in your situation and saves precious time, is sending text messages like these, that resonate with his subconscious mind. 

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He doesn’t seem to consider your needs in the relationship

If your man is acting like he’s doing everything for you, there could be a reason behind it.

A Geminis’ primary goal in life is to meet his own needs.

So, if he’s doing just about anything for you without asking you first, he’s probably trying to make sure he gets exactly what he wants out of the relationship.

He might be prioritizing his own needs in an effort to avoid getting too serious about you. After all, he knows that he’d be much happier if he didn’t feel obligated to take care of you.

So while he may seem incredibly attentive and accommodating, he’s really making sure that he’ll never end up having to compromise himself again.

See also: Gemini man in bed

He sidesteps any discussion about commitment

Gemini men are often indecisive and don’t want to make decisions. They tend to keep their options open and avoid committing themselves to anything too early.

This makes it hard for a Gemini man to know how much he wants to spend his time and energy on someone else.

If you’re dating a Gemini man, you might notice him avoiding making eye contact and any firm commitments.

If you ask him what he thinks about something — like whether he’d like to move in together — he might say “I’m still thinking about it,” which could mean one thing, or it could mean another.

Make sure you understand exactly what your man needs in a committed relationship, as this video explains.

He never declares his feelings

Gemini men aren’t always good communicators. They’re natural observers and listeners, and they enjoy talking about themselves and what’s happening around them.

So, if your Gemini man hasn’t ever brought up something like how he feels about you or why he doesn’t want to date you anymore, don’t worry. He probably wants to keep you guessing.

But, there’s a flip side to this coin. While a Gemini man might be keeping you off balance, he could simply be hiding behind a facade.

And, while he may seem cool and collected one moment, he could be having some major emotions bottled inside him.

In fact, research suggests that Geminis are actually quite emotional beings. In fact, according to Psychology Today, “Geminis tend to show obvious signs of depression more often than others.”

Related article: The dark traits of Gemini

Final Thoughts

The above list is just a short summary of what I think are the most important things to look for when deciding if a Gemini man is playing you.

Of course, every person is different and each individual situation is unique.

But hopefully, this will help you find out why he might have been acting weird lately. And maybe, just maybe, you’ll learn something about yourself too.

Important Notice

 This is something all women should know

If you are starting to feel your guy is losing interest in you

Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship.

The next few sentences could hold the key to your future relationship happiness.

There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

Yet 90% of women don't even know it even exists.

It is the reason why relationships never get started or why couples just drift apart.

If you want to learn the secret to becoming the center of his world and being the only woman he truly desires,  this video explains the simple steps that can turn your dreams into reality.


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