When a Gemini Man Ignores You – What You Should Do

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Last Updated on March 23, 2022

If you have had a hot Gemini suddenly run cold on you it can feel almost as if he is two people. This is because astrologically speaking, he is. Gemini is known as “the twins”, possessing two sides and representing the duality of nature.

He can be a complex man and figuring out why he has been brushing you off is not so cut and dry.

But do not give up hope just yet, here is what to do when a Gemini man ignores you.

What Does it Mean When a Gemini Man Ignores You?

Getting the cold shoulder from your Gemini man is no fun at all, but it is not the end of the world or even your relationship for that matter.

This man infamously has two sides to him, and his sudden distancing could mean simply that the other one has been showing itself.

He is Flighty or Scattered

Sure, he is not as wishy-washy as the Pisces, but the mentally active Gemini man has been known to be flighty and scatterbrained from time to time.

This is surprising, as he usually seems so mentally strong and grounded. But the Gemini guy can get distracted too, and it is important to note that he means no harm by it.

Gemini is an intellectual air sign, and he is smart by his very nature. His active mind goes all over seeking constant stimulation when it is not present right in front of him.

It is also not unheard of for these guys to jump from one thing to another. Sometimes all they need is for you to understand how to reel them back in.

What it Means When a Gemini Man Stops Trying

It means something is missing in the relationship, and it could be the one thing he needs to feel totally alive as a man.

The best way to describe this missing thing is as an obsession that men rarely talk about unless, of course, they are a psychologist in male masculinity. However, once you understand it, you will see how easily it can be used to your advantage.

If your Gemini guy is showing signs of waning interest in you, it may be because he desperately expects you to fill this emotional void.

You can find out more about this vital missing ingredient that a man needs in a loving relationship by listening to a video by psychology expert James Bauer as he explains His Secret Obsession here.

man chatting to a woman while ignoring another woman

He is Stuck in His Head

On the other end of the spectrum from flightiness, the Gemini man can be extremely focused as well. This laser-like focus causes the Gemini man to live upstairs in his head often, thinking about a multitude of things and possibilities.

If he seems mentally preoccupied, it Is because he is, and, of course, also because he is a Gemini.

Sadly, this preoccupation blinds him to what lies right in front of his face – in this case, you.

Sometimes all the Gemini man needs is a tap on the shoulder to see the beautiful person who is standing right in front of him.

Understanding more about what he desperately needs from you in a relationship is key to winning his heart. Listening to this short video will explain how to get him to focus his attention on you, and only you.

He is Being Cautious/Has Not Made Up His Mind

He might be one of the more open and carefree guys you know. And while the Gemini man seems to be friends with everyone, not everyone gets access into his inner circle so easily.

Surprisingly, he is cautious about love. If Gemini man is attracted to you but still has some reservations about it, the Gemini will back off a bit as to not lead you on while he can figure some things out.

The Gemini — also known as “the twins” — represents the duality of everything and this breeds indecisiveness, even procrastination.

It is possible that Gemini man likes you one second and then has doubts the next. He can keep going back and forth like this in his mind until he finally decides on something.

Using the tips provided in this article can help you to help him decide – on you.

Related Article: Signs Gemini man is falling for you

He is Busy

All of us have been through busy periods of life at one time or another, but the Gemini man’s life always seems to be this way.

He is a social and outgoing creature, but he is also an intellectual who works on his projects and possibly reads a lot. He is always balancing his popular and extroverted self with his introverted inner life and rich mental world.

He is not Interested

We all have our types, the Gemini man included. Some of this has to do with astrological matches – the more obvious ones such as the sun sign, but also the lesser discussed planets also have an impact on who we love.

Below we have listed some things you can do to get the Gemini man to show interest. This way, you can know for sure if the two of you are truly made for each other or not.

A couple smiling together

How to Get a Gemini Man to Stop Ignoring You

The dual-faced Gemini man gets turned on and turned off quite easily. So, let us see what we can do to help him get turned back on. For as complex and stoic as he can be, he has many soft spots as well.

Talk to Him

This seems like an obvious one, but with the Gemini man, it goes a long way. The communicative Gemini is famous for his bluntness, a trait he also respects in others and responds to.

If he seems to have taken off on you out of the blue, contact him and be straightforward. Asking him what the deal is with brushing you off will likely get you an honest answer, and he may even feel bad about any harm it caused you. Hopefully, he will want to start over fresh.

Send Flirty, Witty Text Messages

You have not heard from your Gemini honey in a while? Reach out through text message. But please do not send just any text message.

Your Gemini guy will probably not appreciate being scolded for going M.I.A. over text. Before pressing “send”, make sure that you intend to flirt with him.

He loves to flirt for 2 reasons. 1) it is a form of communication, and 2) it is playful.

If you want to kick the attraction into high gear, add an element of wit to your texts. He will dig the smart banter and hopefully want more of it.

Yes, verbal communication is his preferred method of connecting with others, but in times where we heavily rely on technology, it is not always an option. Even the Gemini guy understands this.

If you are having trouble getting him to respond to your text you may find it useful to check out a program called Text Chemistry.

It is a system devised by relationship expert Amy North that uses carefully crafted phrases that interact with a guy’s subconscious mind.

These messages can re-spark his desire for you and even repair a relationship that has drifted apart after a breakup.

Fill Up Your Social Calander and Go Have Some Fun

The Gemini man is a sucker for socializing. He gravitates towards others who are outgoing and like to have fun.
Gemini men are not known for their high levels of jealousy. But when he sees you (or word gets back around to him) that you are living it up and having a great time, he is bound to be a little bit curious, if not wanting to take part in it himself.

The Gemini man needs a partner who is independent and has their own thing going on for them. As a bonus, when he sees you living your life and enjoying it, it shows the Gemini that you are a strong, empowered individual.

A woman who knows how to have a good time and also that you are someone who would be a good long-term match for him.

Related Article: How to make a Gemini man want you back

Brush Up On His Interests

If the Gemini man bailed because he did not think there was much of a connection between the two of you, showing curiosity and some knowledge about his interests might change the dynamics a bit.

Chances are that this man has a variety of interests and hobbies. Gemini guys often have topics they are interested in and research inside and out as well as physical hobbies, and even obsessions.

Remember that first and foremost the Gemini man needs someone who he can talk to for hours on end. Discover more about His Secret Obsession by listening to a video by relationship expert James Bauer.

Dress it Up (or Down)

He is visual like any other guy, but the Gemini man is especially attracted to sexiness. He is a highly sexual guy, and Gemini male sexuality says that many are even freaky behind closed doors.

If you need your Gemini man to respond, looking great is a guaranteed method to turn his head around. There is no better way to rekindle the spark in any relationship or potential relationship than to kick up the level of attraction.

Maybe this was all that was missing, to begin with?

Final Thoughts

Getting brushed off by anyone is terrible, but knowing what to do when a Gemini man ignores you is downright confusing.

Maybe it was just a misunderstanding on his part, or maybe you need to bring him back in with the right amount of mental stimulation and physical appeal. Speaking to the Gemini man’s mind is always your best bet.

Important Notice

 This is something all women should know

If you are starting to feel your guy is losing interest in you

Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship.

The next few sentences could hold the key to your future relationship happiness.

There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

Yet 90% of women don't even know it even exists.

It is the reason why relationships never get started or why couples just drift apart.

If you want to learn the secret to becoming the center of his world and being the only woman he truly desires,  this video explains the simple steps that can turn your dreams into reality.


(Please use your new knowledge ethically)


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