You had a fight with your Aries man and broke up. Now you don’t know what you should do to bring him back…
It’s okay, we have all been there at least once in our lives.
You probably already know how stubborn an Aries man can be, and for this reason, it may not be easy to get him back. However, it may not be impossible with the right help.
Relationship coach, Amy North teaches women how to reconnect with their partner after a breakup in a rather unique way. She combines clever, subtle psychology with text messages to help you re-build the bridges and create feelings of love and connection once again.
In her course, she actually teaches women to communicate with men much more effectively to make him go crazy about you. And if you’re going through a breakup with your Aries man then Amy gives you the exact text messages to send him to get him back. She doesn’t leave anything out.
Let’s get back to our topic. I am here to help you get your man back, so, what should you do to get your Aries guy to want you back after a breakup?
Tips To get Your Aries Man Back After Breaking Up
Don’t make him jealous
There is a reason for me to mention this first. Women frequently use this trick to lure a man out of his shell by trying to make him jealous or playing mind games with him.
This doesn’t work on a male with this star sign, though. Aries is a fire sign. He is like a flame itself; Passionate, brave, and a hero in every sense of the word. He dislikes sly and shady people, and he can read through any false intentions very easily.
So, a very big mistake is to try to make him jealous. The sign of Aries is ruled by Mars, a planet that has immense aggressive energy. When an Aries guy gets mad, it’s in an instant, and it’s usually pretty turbulent.
He has no intention of fighting with other men for his ex-partner because for him, it means that he can’t rely on her anymore. He needs a stable partner, and if he sees her flirting with other guys, he would probably think that he can’t trust her anymore.
See also: Ways to make your Aries man miss you
Be distant at first
After your breakup, don’t sit around just wishing he will contact you. Give yourself time to think about what went wrong and what could be fixed. If you are true to yourself with what was actually at fault you can take action to repair the rift. During this time, do not talk to him. Make him wonder what is actually happening with you.
Aries man is sometimes so hard to please and easily gets bored, so make sure he knows that you are not an easy touch who will just fall at his feet. Remember he is a fire sign and needs to be challenged. But you need to send him a few hints, though.
Aries man does not dwell in the past. He focuses on the here and now and he needs to know that you will not be gone for good and that you two could work things out.
As you probably already know, an Aries man likes feminine women that are pretty and take care of their looks. Do your nails, dye your hair and style it in a casual way. But do not go overboard and look tarty.
Go shopping, retail therapy is a great tonic for a girl. You will feel better and you will reward yourself with some pretty clothes. Go to places he often visits with a view to bumping into him by accident! Make him think of the good times you shared, this will make him want you again.
Of course, you have already done things like this at the start of your relationship with him, but try to take things to a new level. Think back on anything he complimented you on before. Wear the same color dress or the perfume that he likes.
The secret of re-igniting your relationship is being able to discuss the things that led to the breakup. To be able to do this you need to break down the barriers of who was right and who was wrong.
Aries guys can also get pretty angry when going through a breakup. You may just need to leave him be for a while. Don’t worry, having some distance is not a bad thing and can actually work in your favour.
During this stage, gently staying in touch with him through text can help you to bridge the gap and get the two of you communicating again. However, it is important not to text him too often or make any demands of him.
This, of course, can be a tricky time so I would recommend following relationship coach, Amy North’s advice on exactly how to text him to get him back here.
By being brave, I mean on calling him out to talk about everything. Go somewhere nice and quiet where you won’t be disturbed and grab a coffee.
Do not blame him for everything, nor take the blame yourself. It doesn’t matter whose fault everything is, try to frankly state out the problem. Be objective and direct. Do not make him read between the lines, because it can irritate him and he could leave.
By the way, the good thing about an Aries man is that he does not hold on to grudges. It will make things much easier for you if you show him how mature you are at wanting to resolve any problems. Also, if he is over you, he will let you know directly. He has an honest nature and does not want to pull the wool over your eyes.
In this youtube video below, an astrologist explains the biggest signs that can tell you if an Aries man is truly over you or not even before he tells you.
You should know that if you lied to him, cheated on him or betrayed him in any way, he will probably close his heart for you. Aries man is like a “knight in shining armor”, because of his characteristics tricks just don’t work on him.
He might even get mad at you for trying to control or manipulate him, so take your time and let him see you have the potential to be the woman of his dreams. Leave all your tricks aside and be exactly who you are. That is your safest bet.
As an Aries, he is a true “baby of the zodiac”. He is curious, without fear, and he wants to know and seize everything. In addition to that, his reactions are sometimes sudden and can be turbulent.
He is a romantic guy, even if he is a true fire sign and the most masculine sign of them all.
Fire signs can be open and they can let someone get really close to them. If you were close, you can get close again. Be something he needs. Be distant for a short while, but be there for him. Be brave and strong, but show him how much you care.
Since your communication will be limited at this time, texting will be your best way to communicate with him in order to patch things up. However, be very cautious with the texts you send while going through a breakup because it can be very easy for someone to misinterpret your messages, which could ruin your chances of getting back with him completely.
This is why relationship coach, Amy North has created her test message breakup recovery system. She explains how it works here.
And don’t be scared. An Aries is hot-headed but he will listen to you and what you have to say. If he wants to work on your relationship, he will embrace you and be open.
If he doesn’t then you probably couldn’t do anything in the first place. He had probably made his decision even before. You don’t know until you try!