When a Pisces Man Ignores You – What Should You Do

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Last Updated on April 7, 2023

Ahh, Pisces, the master of the disappearing act. If any sign has perfected the art form of popping in and out of lives, the Pisces guy would win awards for it.

While it is frustrating for you, he may not know he is doing anyone any harm.

That is why it is important to know what to do when a Pisces man ignores you, so the two of you can get on with your relationship in a healthy manner.

This article explains the reasons why your Pisces guy may be ignoring you, and more importantly, vital things you can do to get him to focus his attention on you, and only you.

What Does It Mean When a Pisces Man Ignores You?

The Pisces man can make you feel like the most important person in the world, only to randomly take off and disappear- popping back up to do it all over again.

However, if your Pisces man’s break has been an extended one, you are surely wondering why. Below are some reasons for your man’s inconsistent attitude.

He is Recharging His Emotional Connections

This is the most likely reason for your Pisces guy to be ignoring you, so let us get it out of the way first. Pisces is by far the most sensitive of all the astrology signs, and they are known for needing their downtime.

Pisces are not sensitive in the touchy way that Virgo’s are. However, they are sensitive in that they easily pick up on the emotions of others.

His inner world can often be full of turbulent emotions, some of which are not even his to carry. He can sometimes become mixed up separating his own emotions from other people.

It is for this reason that the Pisces man may become bogged down and feels overwhelmed.

In the same way that you or I need sleep, the Pisces man sometimes just needs a break from the world to turn it all off and get away.

Anyone who has ever known a Pisces man knows that he needs to recharge and reground himself. He will typically be Okay, just as long as no one’s feelings are getting trampled on.

His Secret Obsession

When it comes to emotional sensitivity the Pisces guy can take the biscuit.

He is slow to express his true feelings and maybe take a step back because he can’t explain the one thing that he craves from a woman that makes the relationship click.

A Pisces guy wants a secure passionate partnership with a woman he loves. He needs it more than he likes to admit. Building a relationship is an investment in his future happiness.

This may be why you have been confused by his behavior. He comes across as though he really likes you, so why is he holding back?

For him to appreciate his investment in you, he has to see that you can provide him with the one thing that gives his life purpose.

Most women are totally unaware of this “greater” need in a Pisces man, it is a “greater” need even than sex.

To fully understand how to become the woman in his life that can fulfill his greatest desire listen to this short video by relationship expert James Bauer as he explains a man’s greatest obsession here.

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He is Hurt

The deep-feeling fish is easily wounded. He suffers alone because he feels bad about putting his burdens onto others. He is the cross-bearer of our modern times.

Whether you are the culprit for his hurt feelings, or somebody else is, it does not matter because Pisces is the most forgiving sign in the zodiac.

So, let him work it out. This man does not hold grudges and will be back to loving you and everyone else in no time, guaranteed.

Related Article: How to win back a Pisces Man

He is Lost in Fantasy

Pisces is ruled by Neptune, the planet of illusion. Neptune gives way to all types of disillusionment to those affected by it.

Pisces can get caught up in many escapist activities, be it video games, drinking, substances, or even daydreaming.

This is fine in small doses, but it becomes problematic in excess. If your Pisces man has been gone for too long, it might be time to check in with him and see what is going on.

He is Flimsy

To say that Pisces is indecisive would be an understatement. The fish is as wishy-washy as they come.

He often has no idea what he wants. Well, he does know one thing, that he wants no one to get hurt.

The Pisces guy filters life through his emotions.

For him to be OK with a relationship he must sort through everything he has got going on inside and then attempt to make sense of it intellectually. This can take some time.

You could always give him his space if he is not being too outrageous about his vanishing acts.

But if it is affecting you to the point of reading articles like this, it might be time to have an honest conversation with him.

Try to be honest when you ask yourself “Am I providing my Pisces guy with what he truly wants in a long-term relationship?

The simple answer is like flipping a switch in his brain and this video will explain exactly what you need to do to make him always want to be with you.

He’s Not Interested

As I previously mentioned, Pisces is not one to want to hurt anybody.

Known as the “martyr” sign, a Pisces man will often sacrifice his own well-being to not hurt anyone else. Other times he will just run away from it all.

Pisces are not always the most straightforward of men.

If you were ghosted by a Pisces, do not let it confuse you because you certainly are not the first, and you will not be the last.

If the ghosting behavior of your Pisces man has left you scratching your head then this advice from relationship expert James Bauer will show you how to trigger his male ego to make him want to win your affection.

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How to Get a Pisces Man to Stop Ignoring You

Earth to Pisces. Sometimes your space cadet lover needs a tap on the shoulder to wake him from his daydream. And then there are times he genuinely needs his space.

I know, it is tough to tell which is which because the Pisces man is a hard one to pin down. But before you do anything you will regret, try some of these things out first.

Related Article: How to get a Pisces man to chase you

Give Him Space

As I mentioned previously, often the Pisces man just needs some space to breathe, decompress and recharge.

If he feels like he is not getting this much-needed respite then he will likely do a disappearing act on you.

Fortunately though, if he likes you then he will soon make an appearance again before too long.

Give him the space he needs before he feels the need to break away, and he will thank you for it. After a while, the Pisces man will miss you before too long and reach back out.

Bring Him Back Down to Reality

Giving him space will be your best option, followed by reaching out to him to see if he is Okay.

But if you have tried those options already and his distant behavior has not changed, he may just need to be reeled in.

Pisces man can be a serious space cadet, the non-mindful ones at least.

These types of Pisces men can sit on their couch for days on end and not even know what day of the week it is, or how long they have been sitting there for.

Of course, that is a bit of an exaggeration, but to say that the Pisces man is constantly getting lost in thought is not.

Or maybe he is recharging himself — working some stuff out — not realizing he is over-staying his alone time.

If this is the case, then he needs to be roped back in. It is for his own good and he will thank you for it later.

You can’t make a man have feelings for you, but you can change how you interact with each other by providing him with the thing he needs most.

Understanding this one vital ingredient to a successful relationship will give you the key to his heart, and ensure he has eyes for you, only you.

Text Him with How Much He Means to You

Reach out to your Pisces man and let him know that you care.

I am not a gambling person, but if I were I would put it all on the Pisces’ disappearance being directly tied to him feeling overwhelmed or needing some time to sort out some kind of inner turmoil.

It helps him tremendously to know that someone is in his corner because the Pisces man often feels like he is going through it all by himself.

He will appreciate you and love you so much more, and who knows, he might be open and honest with you when it comes time for him to retreat again.

However, texting can be a bit of an art. Too much trivia without foundation could have an adverse effect, whereas texting him words that resonate with his mental “G Spot” could draw him towards you like a magnet.

For the words and phrases that connect directly with his emotional subconscious mind check out Text Chemistry here.

Set Boundaries

The Pisces is the poster child for needing clear boundaries. This man goes with the flow a little too much. This is not good when the flow is towards you and then other times it is taking him elsewhere.

It might be best to let your Pisces man know that you understand he may need to take off and do his own thing from time to time.

Just be clear with him about how much you can take before it all becomes too much.

Related Article: The signs a Pisces guy likes you

Walk Away

So, you now know a bit about what makes the Pisces man tick now.

You have probably read a bunch of other things about this sun sign, so you have a pretty clear idea about his faults.

Now you have to ask yourself how much of this you will take? Just because he is a bit different does not give him a free pass to play with other people’s feelings at his leisure.

If you have given it all you got but he continues to ignore you, disregarding your feelings completely, it might be high time to break loose from this relationship and let it become somebody else’s problem.

Final Thoughts

The elusive Pisces is gone with the wind once again and no one is surprised.

Now that you know what to do when a Pisces man ignores you, you will be better equipped to handle it in a way that makes the relationship flourish.

Sometimes all that is needed is some understanding and trust on both ends, so check out His Secret Obsession by expert James Bauer to see if you can supply your Pisces guy with what he really craves from a relationship.


Important Notice

 This is something all women should know

If you are starting to feel your guy is losing interest in you

Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship.

The next few sentences could hold the key to your future relationship happiness.

There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

Yet 90% of women don't even know it even exists.

It is the reason why relationships never get started or why couples just drift apart.

If you want to learn the secret to becoming the center of his world and being the only woman he truly desires,  this video explains the simple steps that can turn your dreams into reality.


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