How To Turn On a Cancer Man And Make Him Wild For You

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Last Updated on February 8, 2023

5 Key Takeaways

Learning how to turn on a Cancer man starts by setting the mood, perhaps with romantic lighting, candles, and background music.

Show your Cancer man that you are confident and comfortable in your own skin. This video explains the seductive phrases that will skyrocket his passion for you.

Take the time to explore his body and be attentive to his needs, this will build the mystery of things to come.

Use gentle touches and caresses to build anticipation and arousal. Whisper words like these, which will enhance his performance.

Cancer Man in the Bedroom

Be open-minded when it comes to trying new things in the bedroom; Cancer men appreciate variety and creativity!

Cancer men are known for being the nurturers of the zodiac. They’re generally kind, loving, and gentle individuals who always want to do what’s best for those they love.

But if you don’t know how to turn them on sexually then you might end up feeling a little left out. For the more adventurous, this video explains how to administer oral to achieve the best results.

The good news is that it’s not difficult to figure out how to turn Cancer men on sexually because they’re only too happy to please their partners as long as they know what pleases them in return!

In this article, we’ll give you some top tips for getting your Cancer man going without him even knowing he’s been turned on!

You can tell a lot about a man and how to turn him on based on his astrology zodiac sign. If you want to know how to turn on a Cancer man, you are definitely in the right place.

We are going to be discussing how to drive him completely wild so that he will only ever want you.

In this article, I will share with you some proven techniques that will help you encourage your Cancer crush to look at you as the center of his universe.

The first thing that you need to understand is how analytical and sensitive a Cancer man can be.

Ruled by the Moon he can be shy and introverted but also very intuitive.

Generally full of charm but with a somewhat overactive brain that uses logic rather than emotion, especially in romantic situations.

This gives us our first clue into the sexual turn on’s of a cancer man. This is because he loves his partner whispering in his ear during lovemaking.

It’s possible, you like me at first, may be unsure of how to use this technique to its full potential so it’s worth checking out The Language of Desire, which is a program by Felicity Keith.

Felicity is a relationship expert who can teach you how to turn on your Cancer man by talking dirty, which is a technique that can be so powerful.

If you would like to know more you can listen to Felicity in a video explaining The Language of Desire.

It takes more than that to turn on a Cancer man however so without further ado, let’s dive right into the juicy stuff.

What Turns a Cancer Man On Sexually?

One of the great things about a Cancer man is that he is very sensitive and cares about pleasing you in bed.

He likes experimenting with different partners but he always gives his all and enjoys foreplay.

His perfect woman is one who reciprocates his desires and is willing to experiment accordingly.

Once he is romantically involved with someone, he is very loyal and you can make him feel a strong connection to you once you know exactly what turns him on.

Cancer men are not usually interested in just a quickie. What he likes sexually is slow and sensual lovemaking, but this doesn’t mean that they are not passionate too!

There are many things that you can do in bed and in everyday life that will hugely turn him on, which I am going to tell you all about in this article below.

A woman turning on a Cancer man sexually

Fun Ways To Turn On a Cancer Man

Here are eight fun ways to turn a Cancer man on sexually and make him hot for you.

Take Charge

Cancer men are sensitive and can be emotional when in love and they will also take initiative from you when you put in effort in the bedroom.

Perhaps surprising him with something sexy or making it very clear what you want, is a huge turn-on for a Cancer man.

A passionate kiss out of the blue is a way to show him just how much you want him.

Just make sure you set the right environment with soft background music and possibly scented candles to create an atmosphere for love.

See also: Telltale signs a Cancer man likes you

Let The Romance Flow

It isn’t just men who need to be romantic, you can do it too.

Cancer men show their feelings through romance and they will appreciate the same in return.

Perhaps you want to run a candlelit bath for yourself and your love, or wear some sexy underwear and surprise him laid out surrounded by rose petals?

Let your imagination run wild with this one if you really want to turn on a Cancer man…

Also, remember to check out Felicity Keith’s video in which she explains the power of talking dirty in the ear of your Cancer lover while turning him on.

Sex therapist Felicity has developed her technique and explains exactly how to use it in this video on The Language of Desire here.

Oral Sex

Oral sex is a common sexual behavior among men and women. It can be pleasurable for both partners, but it does not always lead to orgasm.

But what about oral sex? Is it as satisfying as intercourse?

The answer is yes! Oral sex has been proven to be just as enjoyable for most people, with studies showing that nearly 70% of heterosexual couples have tried it at least once.

Regardless of the reason why someone may want to engage in oral sex, there’s no need to feel embarrassed or ashamed: we’re all adults here!

So if you’re curious and would like some more information on how this might work out for you, this video explains exactly what to do to bring new excitement to your relationship.

Sensual Touch

Cancer men love to be pampered, so a great way to initiate something more naughty is through massage.

Take off his clothes, instruct him to lie down, get out the sensual oils, and massage him from head to toe.

If he wants to put his clothes back on at the end of the massage, is he even a Cancer sign at all?

See also: Getting a Cancer Man back after a breakup

Be Submissive Occasionally

While a Cancer man likes you to take charge sometimes, he also likes to show off his skills in the bedroom and this means you are submissive to that.

If he is Venus in Cancer then he will have an especially strong sex drive!

If you really want to turn on a cancer man, tell him that you are his to do whatever he wants with.

This will make him feel super manly and horny, guaranteeing you the time of your life!

He will be so pleased to show you his skills and plenty of oral sex is pretty much guaranteed.

Dress To Please

It is known that Cancer men are very visual and appearance is very important to them (at least initially), so it’s up to you to excite them in this way.

If you are on a date with him, wear something sexy but something that still leaves a little something to the imagination.

Make an effort with your hair and makeup even in everyday life, he is sure to appreciate these little details.

A sexy lingerie collection to tease him in the bedroom is going to turn him on so much.

See also: How to flirt with a Cancer man over text

Try Sex In Public

Cancer men are well-known adrenaline hunters so if you want to show him just how kinky you can be, why not try some outdoor/public sex together?

You could absolutely give him the time of his life because of the idea of possibly being caught in such a turn-on.

If you are in a relationship with a Cancer man and want to spice things up, this is a perfect way so don’t be shy, but try not to get caught either.

Try Some Nipple Play

You need to be focusing on his erogenous zones to really get him going and one area that Cancer men love being touched is their nipples.

Some people assume that only women enjoy nipple play but that isn’t true.

Kiss them, lick them, tweak them – try whatever and see how he responds to these touches.

Don’t be surprised if he’s instantly hard and ready to go further.

Talk Dirty

Your words are so important to a Cancer man and what guy doesn’t love a bit of dirty talk?

Maybe you could whisper something naughty to him before you leave for work in the morning, leaving him craving for you all day long?

Perhaps you could even text him something dirty or leave naughty notes around the place.

However you choose to use dirty talk, The Language of Desire will make you perfect at it.

If you are at the stage of wanting to know how to turn on a Cancer man then you may find the following YouTube video for help.

It gives some tips on how to get his attention so that you can practice the turn-on tips in this article.

Final Thoughts

How to turn on a Cancer man sexually is not all that difficult if you follow the above tips. Be playful, bring fun into the relationship, and make him beg for more.

Dressing sexy will certainly get his attention. However, it’s all about attitude and sexual confidence.

A great way to step into your sexual power and allow your confident, inner goddess to shine through is by embracing your own divine, sexual nature.

While this comes naturally to some women, most need guidance in order to free this aspect of themselves.

Regardless of who you are, this inner power is there waiting to emerge. It is every woman’s divine essence. Unfortunately, social and cultural programming suppresses this side of women.

Ironically, a woman who has embraced their true sexual nature is not only more desired by men, but they are also more successful in life and celebrated by their peers.

Felicity Keith shows you how you can break free from this cultural oppression, step into your true power, and allow the inner goddess to shine through.

She explains it all in this short video here.

Want More Tips To Turn On Cancer Man?

If this article has whetted your appetite and you now want to know more Cancer man turn-ons, visit our Homepage here for more sexy tips.

Making him yearn for you when you are not around, and adore you when you are together is a pretty good feeling that will make you even hotter together.


Important Notice

 This is something all women should know

If you are starting to feel your guy is losing interest in you

Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship.

The next few sentences could hold the key to your future relationship happiness.

There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

Yet 90% of women don't even know it even exists.

It is the reason why relationships never get started or why couples just drift apart.

If you want to learn the secret to becoming the center of his world and being the only woman he truly desires,  this video explains the simple steps that can turn your dreams into reality.


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