How To Seduce a Cancer Man And Make Him Want You

A seductive woman trying to kiss a man on the stairs

Last Updated on August 16, 2021

Before you can even think about how to seduce a Cancer man, you must be able to understand as much about his characteristics as possible.

If you have your eyes on a man born under the Astrology sign of cancer, then this can sometimes be hard to do.

Cancer men are cautious when it comes to romance and it can be difficult to crack open their outer reserved shells.

This can make it hard for you to seduce him if you jump the gun and make the first move.

However, once you understand how he thinks and reacts to flirting and romance, you see that your Cancer man can be the most tender and caring lover you ever had.

So, if you are wondering if it is worth your time trying to seduce a Cancer man….

The answer is YES!!!

The astrological zodiac sign of Cancer is the Crab which is a water sign and is predominantly influenced by the Moon.

As we know the moon is ever-changing and the water signs can be sometimes pushed over the top.

Cancer men can be emotional but are usually very driven which can give them a “crabby vibe”!

This is why you need to know more about his true character before trying to hop into bed with him.

Something that you may find helpful is a work by leading relationship expert Anna Kovach, entitled Cancer Man Secrets.

This is a range of books that hi-lights the characteristics of the Cancer man as well as information regarding his Sextrology.

If you have the hots for a guy born in the zodiac sign of Cancer and want to make him your own, I strongly advise you to check out this link to Cancer Man Secrets here.

Effective Ways On How To Seduce a Cancer Man

Now you have learned more about your Cancer crush you will understand how to move forward with dating.

Once you have his attention you want to be able to seduce him with your charms. The following tips will give you a head start.

A woman seducing a man in a park

Be Faithful To Him

A guy born into Cancer tends to dislike one-night stands or dealing with cheaters.

They want any relationship to have a future of creating a family.

If you want to seduce a cancer man, you have to prove that you are trustworthy.

Don’t ever get the thought that trying to make him jealous is an idea.

It can ruin your chance of making the relationship go any further.

Even if he likes you, a Cancer man will take his own sweet time in getting to know you before he feels comfortable to completely be himself with you.

If you have any skeletons in the closet it is best to bring them to the open before getting serious with this guy.

Related article: Cancer Man in bed – what a woman needs to know

Show Affection

Don’t wait until it is time to have sex to shower him with affection.

Cancer men need you to show affection way before then.

Go the extra mile to let him know how much you think of him and care about him.

Cancer men want a woman who will be attentive to their needs. It’s easy to shower him with affection.

You can simply:-

Get in the habit of always kissing him on the cheek every time you meet.

Check his reaction if you do it with other people around. You want to avoid it if you think he may be embarrassed.

When you are alone together, look deeply into his eyes before turning away and changing the subject.

He is a guy who is always thinking and will be wondering what is on your mind.

Little signs like this will show if he is falling in love with you.

Actively listen to him when he is relating something that he finds interesting.

The way to a Cancer man’s heart is through his brain.

Hold his hand randomly or slip your arm under his when you are walking together.

Take his hand when crossing a road, it will bring out the protective instinct in him.

Give him the occasional compliment on his looks or his dress sense, or things he does for you.

Show him you appreciate his thoughtfulness.

Most important of all is to check out Cancer Man Secrets by Anna Kovach so you will be able to completely understand his reaction to the things you do for him.

Taking these extra steps can create an extra security blanket of him feeling close to you.

Use Your Cell Phone

A lot of people don’t realize that you don’t need to be face to face with someone to seduce them.

You can even seduce him with your cell phone!

One way to do this, of course, is by using your sexy, alluring voice when you speak to0 him on the phone.

He will have the phone right up to his ear when you speak, so it will feel like you’re whispering in his ear.

However, one of the most effective ways to use your phone is explained in detail in our article on how to seduce a Cancer man with text messages here.

Create the Perfect Moment

By creating a comfortable space for him to relax can help him get in the mood for some loving.

Start the night off right by cooking his favorite meal.

Add in candlelight to create an atmosphere.

Romance means more to guys born under the zodiac sign of Cancer than what you think sex does.

Make the first move by introducing some gentle foreplay. Cancer men are naturally shy and reserved.

So, it is important to start off slow with a gentle kiss on the lips.

Don’t rush into foreplay! He will let you know from his body reactions when it is time to take things to the next level.

Be creative when doing foreplay so it doesn’t take forever to get him comfortable.

The Cancer man reacts to logic rather than emotion, so this is why his brain is always active.

His mind needs to be stimulated to become completely relaxed.

World-renowned sex therapist and relationship expert Felicity Keith has helped scores of women master the subject of talking dirty.

This is something that has a great effect on most men but is often avoided due to ignorance or embarrassment.

Felicity has developed a program in which she explains the importance of whispering the right words at the right time to enhance the pleasure of your Cancer crush.

If you want to raise the passion for your man to new heights, I think you will be amazed, like me, when you listen to The Language of Desire.

A great way to introduce foreplay is by adding some massages and oil.

Do this gently and caress his body in the right ways. Remember rush nothing!

Take it as slow as you can to work him up and become madly wild about you.

It will thrill him to see that you are taking the time for some foreplay.

Helping to create a deeper emotional bond between the two of you.

Related article: More things that turn on a Cancer man

Be Submissive

You can’t be in control the entire time.

Once worked up, the Cancer man wants to be the dominant one.

When he is ready let him take the command and you sit back and listen to everything he says!

Let him know that you are his and no one else’s.

Talk dirty to him and get inside of his head. This link will show you the correct way and avoid any embarrassment.

He wants to have the upper hand as the man. Let him have his chance!

Be Unpredictable

Cancer men are intuitive and can read people a mile away.

If you want to seduce your cancer guy the right way; you have to practice becoming skillful in the art of being unpredictable.

See also: How Cancer Man in love will act

Stay Calm

During the heated moment, you may get too excited and be ready to pounce on him. Stay in control and keep it cool.

Cancer men hate when women are too pushy, remember that they are shy.

He wants any sexual encounter to be filled with deep feelings and respect. Another reason he hates one-night stands so much.

I found this YouTube video which I thought might help you.

It goes into more detail from the astrology side and discusses the Moon and Sun rising in the sign of Cancer.

See also: The Moon in Cancer Man

Final Thoughts

Seducing your Cancer man to the sheets is not as hard you may think it is. Stay patient in the beginning and slowly work your way to the fun.

Listen to the short video that Felicity has prepared and then decide if this is for you.

Watch as Felicity explains the power of The Language of Desire here.

Your efforts in learning how to seduce him will be a worthwhile wait.

You’ll be surprised by how much of a romantic night, and possibly a lifetime of happiness you can create with a guy born under this zodiac sign!

A Cancer man is one of the more sought-after signs of the zodiac for most women. Don’t let this sexy guy slip by you!

Take a look at Cancer Man Secrets so you are completely prepared and understand how to seduce a Cancer man and make him want you.

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Important Notice

 This is something all women should know

If you are starting to feel your guy is losing interest in you

Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship.

The next few sentences could hold the key to your future relationship happiness.

There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

Yet 90% of women don't even know it even exists.

It is the reason why relationships never get started or why couples just drift apart.

If you want to learn the secret to becoming the center of his world and being the only woman he truly desires,  this video explains the simple steps that can turn your dreams into reality.


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