Making an Aries man miss you could be quite a job, depending on the reason you are trying to make him think of you. Aries guys have a very fiery nature and, therefore, an active imagination so don’t be offended if you’re not the only thing on his mind.
There may be several reasons why you want to make this passionate fire sign miss you. Are you in a long-distance relationship? Are you currently going through a breakup or perhaps you’ve already broken up but are wanting to get back together with him?
Regardless of your reasons, there are a few things you can do to get an Aries man to think of you when you’re not around and start to have feelings of missing you.
An Aries man is the first sign of the horoscope. He is a fire sign and his ruling planet is Mars, which makes him a dynamic and sometimes even a volatile character. If you’re going through a breakup with him then you no doubt already know this…
His fiery nature often means that for him, there are little or no boundaries in life. He has an expansive view of the world and is often looking for the next big adventure. For him, his sense of adventure can be fulfilled in many different ways from indulging in extreme sports to being in a passionate and steamy relationship.
He is actually a really straight forward type of guy. He knows who he is and what he thinks, and he is not afraid to state his opinion out loud and stubbornly stick to his guns.
Due to his warrior-like spirit, fiery nature and the fact that Mars, the planet of war, is his ruling planet, his sense of masculinity is at the core of his character. He wants to be seen as the strong hero type and will relish any opportunity to take on the role of the hero or saviour. Think, “knight in shining armour and the damsel in distress.”
This is actually an important part of male psychology when it comes to relationships.
If a woman can make a guy feel like her hero then she is meeting one of his core values at a deep level regardless if he is consciously ware of it or not. When a woman can do this, he will feel a sense of value and fulfilment in a relationship akin to the feelings of love.
Relationship expert, James Bauer describes it as a guy’s “secret obsession”. According to James, if a woman can make a guy feel this way, then she’ll always be on his mind and there is nothing he won’t do for her. James explains how to be his secret obsession here.
In this article, I will share more tips you can use to get him to think of you, miss you and want to be with you.
Getting An Aries Man To Miss You
Subtle texts to make him miss you
If you don’t see him that often or if you’ve broken up then chances are your communication is likely to be very limited.
Clear communication is critical in order to make any relationship work. But how do you get around this if you don’t see him all that much or if you’ve broken up..?
An effective way around this is to use your text messages. Regardless if he replies to you or not, he will definitely be reading them and that’s all you need to get him to start thinking about you.
However, text messages can be easily misinterpreted. The last thing you want to do is to send him a message that gives him the wrong impression or that makes you come across as needy or desperate. This will only push him further away.
Fortunately, relationship coach, Amy North has a very clever and effective text message method designed to subtly take advantage of male psychology. Amy has taught this method to hundreds of women who have used it to get their man back after a breakup and put them on the road to a more happy and fulfilling relationship.
Amy explains her method here so you can see for yourself if it’s right for you.
Become more unavailable
The biggest mistake that you can make is to send him loads of messages or write about him on social media. He would think that this is too much and he would only feel irritated.
If you broke up, don’t send messages at all. If he texts you, play it cool and do not reply immediately. You need to make him start to wonder why you are so quiet and uninterested, and this will play on his mind.
An Aries man is a man of action. He needs to face challenges all the time, so if you are standing right in front of him and show that you are available anytime, you are easy prey.
He won’t even bother chasing you or thinking about you. You need to be a bit mysterious and distant. An Aries man wants a challenge.
So, that means you shouldn’t hang out too much in places where he spends a lot of time. He might think that you are stalking him and he would find that rather bothersome.
Related article: Getting an Aries man back after a breakup
Maintain a positive attitude
Show him that you can live without him. Do not get depressed and suffer because you are not with your Aries man anymore. Go out with friends show him how strong you are.
Reward yourself and make sure he notices that. You could do something new. You could travel alone or go with your friends somewhere. You can even start a new hobby. Just try to show him that you can do just fine without him.
Of course, always be friendly with him and smile a lot. He will definitely miss you more when you display a positive attitude.
You should also understand how an Aries man reacts in a breakup. Because of his fiery temperament, he can blow hot and cold, making it difficult to work out how he really feels about a woman. You can find out more about this Here.
Make him miss you through your appearance
Make a change. You could dye your hair or make it a bit shorter. You could apply a bit more makeup and paint your nails in his favorite color. Anyway, your goal is to look as pretty as you can.
An Aries man is the most masculine sign of the horoscope, and he is naturally attracted to feminine women.
Of course, every man loves to see a pretty woman and have her by his side, but this is more than true when talking about an Aries man.
When he sees you shine even brighter than before, he will realize what he has lost and certainly start missing you.
You can even gain or lose weight if you want. Do whatever that makes you feel better in your own skin and that will boost your self-confidence. Show him that he has lost more than he thinks he has.
What to do moving forward?
You must not become too distant, or ignore him completely. He just needs to understand that you can stand on your own two feet without him.
Remember, never show him that you are hurt and be friendly. You can send him a casual text or even talk to him in person.
Approach him with a smile and be brief and direct. Tell him that you are in a hurry but you wanted to ask him how things are going for him and if he is feeling ok? If you are not sure what is the best thing to say, James Bauer’s new product can help you, so you should check it out.
This will make him wonder even more. You will become a challenge for him again because he will not be able to figure you out at all.
If you want to text him instead of approaching him, be brief as well. Here are some more tips on how to make him think about you again. This article can be helpful to anyone, especially for women who were in a relationship with an Aries man.
After texting him some carefully worded messages, if he replies faster than before, that’s a good sign. Maybe this is the time to suggest a friendly chat over a coffee in town? Take it slow with him.
An Aries man’s characteristic is usually explosive and impatient, but make him slow down a bit with you.
See also: 6 signs an Aries still likes you
If these ploys don’t work on him, then maybe he is over you. In this YouTube video, an astrologist explains the signs that tell you an Aries guy is over you.
The fiery Aries sign can have an active imagination and fantasise often so putting yourself at the center of his thoughts will help to keep you in his mind.
If you can trigger his hero instinct as relationship expert, James Bauer shows here, then you’ll never be far from his thoughts.
Be brave and approach him after some time, but don’t forget to devote more time in yourself and your own happiness. You will shine, and he will notice that and realize what he has lost.
Become the best version of yourself. An Aries man always respects a strong woman, and you indeed are strong. Show him that and he will wonder why you two have ever split up in the first place.