How To Get An Aries Man To Chase You – 4 Fun Ways

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Last Updated on November 18, 2021

How to get an Aries man to chase you isn’t as difficult as you might think. He’s a red-blooded male with both passion and drive.

Did you ever notice that when an Aries man is talking to you, he’s not just listening to what you’re saying? He’s also watching your body language and reading between the lines of what you say.

The Aries man looks for a woman who is confident and independent. That means he needs a woman who knows exactly what she wants out of life and won’t settle for anything less than her dream guy.

If you want an Aries man to chase you, don’t try to put on any airs and graces, just always be yourself – we all have our faults but don’t be too hard on yourself or try too hard to impress him with fake confidence because he’ll see right through you.

Men born under this zodiac sign are known for their hotheadedness and impulsiveness, but they also have a sensitive side. A lot of the time, it’s just buried under all that self-control.

The most important thing to remember is not to take anything he says or does personally. If you’re interested in an Aries man, here are some tips on how to get him chasing after you instead of the other way around!

  • Be confident – He loves feeling like he has something valuable that nobody else can have.
  • Respect his boundaries– Don’t try to dominate him by talking too much about what he should do or trying to change his mind every chance you get.
  • Know when enough is enough– Sometimes there’s no point

Because of his go-getter attitude, he not only enjoys the chase, he thrives on it. To illustrate what I mean, if you want an Aries guy to lose interest in you quickly then you start chasing him. If you do this then he’ll likely get bored quickly and lose any passion for you.

So what does this all mean?

Basically, one of the key ingredients to get his interest and make him pursue you is to spark his interest, but then pull back a little to make him work for more.

He is a brave warrior and behaves like a true hero, so he will not have any issues chasing you. He tends to have an impression of himself as a knight in shining armor and there are no boundaries for him.

If you are the right match for him, both of you will know from the off.

He is not a complicated guy who is hard to read. All his cards are open and he has nothing to hide, but he can have a secret side that is only open to a woman he really cares for. This short video explains his hidden desire, and what a woman must know if she wants to win his heart.

The Zodiac sign of Aries is a Fire sign, which is the impetus for his confidence.

There are some traits that he is especially attracted to in women. For example, he loves it when a woman is very feminine. Masculine energy always attracts feminine energy, it’s natural.

But he needs a woman who is strong and confident as well, and who can stand up for herself and defend her ideals when they are challenged by other people.

If you have the hots for an Aries man you need to understand his complex characteristics.

If you need help in understanding an Aries man, I recommend you check out Anna Kovach’s new product, called Aries Man Secrets which includes Sextrology.

Anna is a well-known relationship expert, and her book has helped countless women achieve happiness.

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How To Get An Aries Man To Chase You In 4 Simple Steps

These proven 4 ways to get an Aries man to chase you have been known to work for scores of women in your position.

Follow along with the rest of this article to find out how.

See also: When an Aries man ignores you

Be True To Yourself

Be brave and say exactly what you mean. Be direct and straightforward. He is just the same, and he will notice you if you stand out from the crowd because of your self-confidence.

Just don’t be noisy, or interrupt people when they are talking. You need to show him that you are well-mannered and respectful of other people’s views as well.

A man born under a fire sign always states his opinion freely, but he also respects other peoples’ opinions. He will respect you if he sees that you are similar to him especially in this context.

See also: Seducing an Aries man in 4 steps

Be Open For Everything

If you are friends, you could suggest to him to do some new, exciting things. He needs constant excitement, and if he falls into a routine, he could become unhappy, or even depressed.

Therefore, use this ploy and show him how adventurous you can be.

You can suggest something more extreme like hiking, or something more casual, like grabbing a coffee in a place where he hasn’t been before, but you think he will find it interesting.

If you are not very close, he will definitely be impressed with your courage to approach him and ask him out.

But before you do, make sure you understand his characteristics which will give you an indication of his mood swings.

You don’t have anything to lose, anyway. Just don’t seem too into him, because you would seem easy to get.

An Aries man is always up for a challenge and if you take away the chase you could lose him.

Just be casual and natural but keep a little mystery about your true self secret. Make him wonder how you actually feel about him.

By being a bit mysterious, you will instantly become more interesting to him. I will talk about that in more detail, so keep reading.

If you feel initially shy you don’t need to talk to him in person, you could text him to get the ball rolling.

If you are a timid person, or not sure how to start a conversation with him, Anna Kovach’s Aries Man Secrets can be helpful. It will give you the knowledge to understand his traits and characteristics better.

Related article: 6 signs an Aries man likes you

Make Yourself Physically Attractive

This is simple. Just try to look as good as you can. Do your nails, do your hair, start working out. You will do yourself a favor, and you will start to love your body more.

It will boost your self-confidence and you will feel so much better in your skin.

Since fire signs are so energetic, your Aries guy probably likes sport.

Find out what sport he likes the most and try to find a local establishment that you can try out as a beginner. This will give you a purpose and make your Aries guy very impressed with you.

If you don’t like working out, though, do not force it. Remember: do not force anything with an Aries man. He doesn’t like anything that is not spontaneous.

He is focused on living in the moment and he doesn’t like to think too much. Therefore, just be the best version of yourself that you can be, and that’s all.

Being as pretty as you can, all the time really takes a lot of effort, but trust me, it will be worth it in the long run.

See also: 5 ways to turn on an Aries man

Challenge Him

If you are too easy to get, you will never be that interesting to him. An Aries man gets bored easily and he needs something to always keep him occupied.

If you are not a challenge, he might not even notice you. Getting a date with him may be easy but getting a second will take some effort.

If you are too available, why would he chase you? It’s no fun.

On the contrary, if you are too far away from him and too hard to get, why would he bother trying to read your complicated signals? That is not exciting, but rather tedious.

An Aries man will actually enjoy chasing you, just don’t run away for too long. Aries man will miss you when you’re not around and want to pursue you, but he will lose interest after a while if he thinks you’re unattainable.

In this youtube video, a very good therapist explains how to get him to become addicted to you and chase you, and why you need to be a bit mysterious in order to do so.

Final Thoughts

All in all, it comes down to being frank and honest with him and yourself.

Start with being true to yourself. Only say things that you really mean and don’t be influenced by other peoples’ opinions.

A good thing about an Aries man is that he will always strive to get the best out of you. All you need to do is always try to be as pretty as you can and as positive as you can.

If you are afraid to make the first move, maybe you should understand more about him.

Anna Kovach can tell you even more about that, so you should peek at her new book called Aries Man Secrets + Sextrology.

He likes honest, direct, and adventurous women who have a sense of humor. He will be attracted to your bravery in willingness to step into the unknown to try new things from time to time.

If you are not particularly energetic and adventurous, don’t’ worry, it doesn’t have to be a deal-breaker. However, don’t fake it just to try to impress him because he will see right through you.

Be honest and real with him, and, of course, put your best foot forward, and you will then stand the best chance with him.

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Important Notice

 This is something all women should know

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Or maybe, you have drifted apart due to a breakup?

The reason could lay in not understanding a fundamental desire a man needs in a long-term relationship.

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There is one thing a man craves above all else, even more than sex.

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